Well, of COURSE this is about you? What was I thinking?

People who follow my life closely – okay, there aren’t any of you. My various doper pals (perhaps a few?) have perhaps read one or another of the comments I’ve made over the last few months about my feeling overwhelmed at work. We (i.e., the company, meaning, in day-to-day-terms, me) started up eight new magazine titles over the course of about three months, and just when all of that yahoo started dying down, not one but two of my underlings quit. These were the two people I was forseeing doing most of the editing of these titles and about 3/4 of the pre-existing ones. I lived through April and May, which were about interviewing possible candidates and working ahead as far as we could to live through the departure of these two. One new person started a month ago, and although she’s enthusiastic and a fast learner, she’s still a trainee. The other started yesterday. Usually new hires spend about two weeks learning the general stuff that’s happening with someone else before I take them on to start teaching them the particulars of my stuff. It turns out that the person who trained new hire #1 did such a shitty job that my boss wants me to do all of the training of new hire #2. Can’t you just talk to the person who did a shitty job and have them do a better job? No – either you’re naturally a good trainer, or you’re not. :eek: Well, isn’t this yet another example of rewarding this woman for her incompetence? (She can’t manage her time worth a damn and is periodically taken out of the rotation for routine jobs that everyone else has to do because she’s so far behind.) Well, everyone else is rewarded for their incompetence, so why not her? :confused: Okay.

Yesterday morning, I came in and wrote up a little to-do list for my boss. I started with the stuff that’s legitimately in my job description, and laid it all out – I have to do X every day, it takes about an hour; I have to do Y twice a week, it takes six to eight hours a time; I have to do Z four to five times a week, two hours a time, etc. It came to 34 to 42 hours a week (3 to 5 of which I do at home). Plus there’s two other jobs that are once a month, one takes about 40 hours, the other takes about 5. Plus there’s a fun little job that is only four times a year, 8-10 hours a shot. Then I gave my estimates for ongoing, but short-term jobs – how much time it will take to train these two, in addition to reviewing their work (which is a legitimate part of my job). Then I made a list of the stuff that I haven’t had a chance to do because I’ve been so effin’ backed up for the last six months – some of which is fairly urgent.

So I put this all together and emailed it to my boss.

Her response (and I quote): “Nice job of overwhelming me!”

Her two specific suggestions were that we check old time logs to see how long these things actually take me, because obviously they can’t possibly take as long as I think they do – yeah, like I’ve got time to fill out an effin’ spread sheet on this for you – and that we assign the fun little job that takes 10 hours, 4 times a year, and give that to someone else.

Sheesh.

That’s all I have to say. Sheesh.

Oooh, I feel your pain and frustration. I wonder if your boss and my boss are related. They both seem to have the same management style.

The upshot is mine is retiring, however, sometimes the demon you know, etc.

Hang in there, hopefully it will get better.

Bummer, dude. I used to work like that too, so I have a pretty good idea how frizzled you are. I ended up quitting and starting over, but it sounds like you are way more established in your career than I am in mine. All I can say that will be of any use to you, is …

This Bud’s for you.

Has your boss ever done your job? It doesn’t sound like it, or she would already know that you are not making this crap up.

I am sorry twickster.

Shall I send you a REALLY big book to beat the boss about the head and shoulders?

Better yet I’l send my boss to your boss… she may look tiny and sweet but she eats tigers for breakfast.

Bosses… three years and I try the old self employed route… might as well repeat the teens and hate myself all over again:D

So twicks, I don’t get it. You don’t see the point of spending hours confirming what you already spent hours estimating, simply so your boss will be able to enjoy a respite from having to think about the whole schmeer?

I so feel your pain.

Here, have a virtual hoagie. My treat.:slight_smile:

Oh, Twickster, my jaw literally dropped open when I read that. Yes, how dare you overwhelm her, she has things to do I’m sure. Like reassigning all the incompetent people’s work to you. I’m so sorry this situation hasn’t gotten any better. You probably don’t even have a minute to job hunt with a schedule like that. I am sending good thoughts to you and really, nasty ones to your boss.

Thanks guys – there’s nothing like Dopers to rally 'round and provide a pep talk when you need one!

Taters – “management style”? Hamsters have better management skills than this woman. Unfortunately, her role model is her boss – who’s the owner’s daughter. Ahem. Yup, family-owned business – gotta love it. (No, wait, I don’t gotta love it, do I?)

rockle (hi! you should come to one of our Philly Doper dinners and listen to me bitch about this in person – er, meet all the charming Philly dopers!) – Excellent question. No, actually, she hasn’t ever done my job – mostly because my job didn’t exist until I started doing it. (This has been a gradual expansion over the course of many years.) There’s one element of it she used to do – once every two months – ten plus years ago. The rest of it is only partially equivalent to stuff she’s familiar with – my version is a lot more complicated.

That’s kind of the problem – I’ve just been in supercompetent Wonder Woman mode for years and years, taking on whatever and getting it done – and this is the first time I’ve stopped and made it clear to her exactly what it is I’m doing in my lair down at the other end of the hall, and exactly how long it takes me.

Krisfer – hi! (There’s an email sometime in your future – I finally finished “Dawn” last night [what with this and that, I was happy to get in 10 pages a night], it was really excellent!) Thanks for your support. Yes, if you’d like to arrange an iron cage match between bosses, I’ll be happy to send a victim, er, representative of our fine company’s upper ranks.

koeeoaddi – hey sweetie, always a treat to run into you. Thanks for the virtual hoagie – I think I’ll wash it down with a virtual Butterscotch Krimpet. (Better than the real thing, I’ve taken to stress eating, which is a really, really, really bad thing.)

Salem – (how are you doing, btw? I do think about you – email me, I can’t find your address – and either start a new thread or resurrect the old one and let us know how it’s going.) Thank you for correctly identifying the punch line of this whole rant. That’s what left me shaking my head for a day and a half before I posted on this. Oh well, eff 'er.

Again – thanks guys – I love me some Doper support!