I think obesity is a distructive behavior. I am 30# overweight myself and I know it is not good for me. The problem with obesity is that it is so visible, most bad behaviors we have don’t stand out as much.
I think she’d probably be really cool to hang around with. I don’t think she’s beautiful. She’s cute, but I find her style unappealing personally. Her weight is not an issue to me because we’re about the same size.