Anal sex without artificial lubricant has been used as a method of birth control (mostly in the peasant class) for unknown millennia. The implication is that the man is unsophisticated and uncaring and it’s a women’s secret to steer them to the don’t-get-pregnant hole and put up with it as being better than another child.
As mentioned, if neither partner is late-20th-century squeaky clean and the man is sufficiently aroused, the act wouldn’t exactly be lube-free.
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Cite? (Only because that hasn’t been my experience)
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Yep, I would figure size of relative parts and individual difference of secretion and preferences for foreplay vary and play a role. It is not a one-size-fits-all proposition plus there are many ways to skin a cat even if you are talking the Queen’s own missionary position.
Grind it up, and it’s known as “tororo” in Japanese: slippery white slime eaten in various ways. If you’ve ever had it (and I have many times, I lived there 8 years), then you can see how it would make great sex lube.
There was a jar of Vaseline on my grandparents’ bedside table in the early 50’s. They would have been in their late 60’s.
I remember being curious about it but I don’t remember if I asked anyone why it was there. I also don’t know why I remember it. I must have thought it was an odd place to keep Vaseline. Not that I had a clue what Vaseline was for. I was 7 or 8 at the time.
Doris Day has said that, at least in her earlier days, she would smear herself from head to toe with it once a week, to the point where she would sometimes slide out of bed, and this was why she looked so youthful.
Sadly all four of my Grandparents are no longer here. Secondly, my grandparents were of the generation that you did not ask these types of questions. Paternal grandfather would have chuckled and possibly answered, paternal Grandmother would have turned red and changed the subject quickly. Maternal Grandmother would have probably answered, maternal Grandfather would have made it quite clear that one does not concern themselves with another persons private life.
On a personal note, I would give all I have just to spend one more day with my maternal Grandfather. The questions I would ask him would be far more important than the one I posed here.