This weekend there is n annuala three day guitar-fest called Jam4Dan, in memory of a guy named Dan Falley. He had a guitar shop, was a noted music teacher, and a superb guitar player. He died ten years ago in a car accident. Not his fault, his car was struck, and he was flung from his own vehicle as he wasn’t wearing a seatbelt. i’d met him and heard him play.
Before his death I almost always wore a seatbelt. Afterwards I resolved to not even take the car out of park without having the seatbelt clicked. i’ve been doing that long enough now that it would feel strange not to have it on when I’m in the car.
So, what do you absolutely, positively always do, no exceptions? If you care to, say why.
Like Chefguy and probably a bunch of other posters…there are plenty of operational/safety/avoid fracking drama things I do ALMOST always…and if I DON"T do them the reason is usually a bit better than “mehhh, fuck it this time”.
I almost always put the seat belt on. Only exception: moving the car from the driveway into the garage. I have my own bathroom and never put the seat down (except to shit), never. Especially in the middle of the night, it is hard on my back to have to raise the seat.
I always know where my keys are but I always check them anyway. I always lock the door (but only after I’ve checked to make sure I have the keys) and then check that it’s locked.
Three decades of working in prisons builds up a habit that borders on a compulsion.
Seat belts and closing the toilet lid are the 2 absolutes in my life. Letting the dog out to pee is another, unless my husband wakes up before I do (I made a funny there!!)
I make a real effort to hang my purse and my keys on a hook every time I come in the house, but sometimes, they sit on the counter.
I try to always have my phone in my pocket, but not all women’s pants have pockets, so I’ve misplaced it on occasion.
And despite having gotten rid of our landline years ago, every time we return home, I have to fight the urge to check the answering machine. Old habits die hard…