The only Texan (a West Texan) I know well is completely against the stereotype–quiet, self-effacing, sweet accent that’s almost-but-not-quite-Southern, highly intelligent, classical-music-singing, and happily married to a guy from western NY, which is of course a whole different ballgame from the City.
But don’t try to push her around, or argue with her in a stupid way, because there’s steel under there. And she does have a sort of–baroque–family history, with drunks and fundies and people running off with other people’s spouses. She herself is the picture of virtue, though, AFAIK.
Most of the Texan tourists I run into in both places where I’ve lived are nice folks who are a little awed at their surroundings and happy to talk to a friendly face, which most of us Easterners are once you crack the shells. They seem thrilled to be someplace so different and don’t put down what they’re seeing, at least within earshot of me.
As for my opinion of TX, it seems a lot like NYC–it’s so big and diverse and has so many different kinds of people that everything you hear about it is true! I read a lot of Molly Ivins and I wouldn’t underestimate her books as forming a lot of opinions about the state. I also know plenty of people assigned there in new branch offices that have managed not to run back home screaming in a few months, so most of the boom cities can’t be TOO weird. The Houston Opera is cool. The love of language and quiet, matter-of-fact brilliance of the metaphors are fun. MsRobyn’s wonderful metaphor about a bunch of walking Chick tracts sounds like my idea of hell, though. I hate sloppy thinking. And, like most people, I resent it when other states assume that it’s impossible to lead a decent life in NYC and Boston, that we don’t have churches and synagogues and families and PTA’s and Girl Scouts, and Texans do seem to think that they’re “real” Americans compared to us.
My brother from the Bronx went to TX for Basic Training and got ribbed a lot, but in a respectful sort of way. Everyone just assumed he was carrying a knife all the time and set fire to abandoned buildings in his spare time. But at least he was really from the city–another TX idea, according to him, is that Texans think everyone from NY State is from the City and everyone from CA is from LA, etc. And when he came home he could do the coolest accents!
I feel there’s more to know about Texas that we don’t hear because of cowboy this and oilman that. I for one would like to know a lot more about black and Mexican Texans and how they react to the rest of the country.
And even Peggy Bundy knew that y’all LOST the Alamo.