What is the tamest sexual request you've had rejected by a partner?

As in, “I don’t want to do that [vanilla-type sexual act]–that’s gross!”

When I was in college, I started to go down on a young lady who pushed my head away from her nether-regions, saying “I don’t like that.”

You don’t like oral sex? "Everybody doesn’t like something, but NOBODY doesn’t like getting head. "

I sometimes wonder if that girl ever acquired a taste for oral sex, or if she’s persisted in rejecting offers to go down on her all these years.

In grade 11, Susan B. wouldn’t let me feel her up even though we were lying on her bed at the time.

:frowning: :smiley:

You went to school with Susan B. Anthony? :eek:

Braunstein. She had like DD’s back then.

Please wash your hands.

::raises hand::

I don’t like getting head. Mouths…yicch!

I wanted to try some light bondage like tying her up with silk scarves or something. She refused at first and didn’t let me try it until much later when we were friends with benefits instead of romantic interests.

I had a bf once who definitely preferred having the lights off during sex. I thought men were supposed to be so visual?

I once asked my wife if she’d consider watching a porn movie on PPV with me and ‘acting out some of the scenes’. Nothing painful, no ‘off-limits’ inputs…just doing the same positions the actors were doing. I was told no, because I might be watching the actress more than / instead of her. :confused: :smack:

another vote for ‘I don’t like this’. And yes I’ve tried it. And yes I’ve had it done right.
I wouldn’t call it gross, but I don’t want it either

Yah, I dated a guy like this. The first time we had sex, he went to turn off the light. I’m like, “No, that’s not necessary wink”, thinking it was for my benefit. Him: “Yah, it is”. Hmmm… and everytime it was lights off. I mean, we showered together and stuff, it’s not like he had some hideous deformity he was trying to hide, or didn’t want to see me naked or anything. And he rejected every sexual request I had. That relationship didn’t last long.

Well, the tamest sexual request I’ve had rejected is, “Are you interested?”

Another vote for no interest in being on the receiving end, here. Fifty years old, don’t think it’s gonna change.

Forgive me, but the contrast setting on my new GameBoy wasn’t working. :wink:

I would have to say the tamest requests I’ve had rejected would be oral, both giving and receiving.

My high school gf would take anal, but would not give head.

Well, depending on the order of events, one could understand why!

I once had a bf try to lick my feet during sex and I was not up for that. I also once asked a bf to have sex with me in a parking lot in the back seat of his van and he freaked out and said no because he didn’t want to be caught. You will never hear me complain about being on the recieving end of oral sex though. In my experience oral sex is always good, whether you are giving or recieving.

Yeah, I had a girlfriend who didn’t like getting oral. She also didn’t like giving it, nor did two other of my past girlfriends.

Really, I would have assumed at some point or another every one of us has had just the plain simple proposition of sex itself be rejected, never mind proceeding to actual selection of specific routines.