I wanted to try some light bondage like tying her up with silk scarves or something. She refused at first and didn’t let me try it until much later when we were friends with benefits instead of romantic interests.
I once asked my wife if she’d consider watching a porn movie on PPV with me and ‘acting out some of the scenes’. Nothing painful, no ‘off-limits’ inputs…just doing the same positions the actors were doing. I was told no, because I might be watching the actress more than / instead of her. :smack:
Yah, I dated a guy like this. The first time we had sex, he went to turn off the light. I’m like, “No, that’s not necessary wink”, thinking it was for my benefit. Him: “Yah, it is”. Hmmm… and everytime it was lights off. I mean, we showered together and stuff, it’s not like he had some hideous deformity he was trying to hide, or didn’t want to see me naked or anything. And he rejected every sexual request I had. That relationship didn’t last long.
I once had a bf try to lick my feet during sex and I was not up for that. I also once asked a bf to have sex with me in a parking lot in the back seat of his van and he freaked out and said no because he didn’t want to be caught. You will never hear me complain about being on the recieving end of oral sex though. In my experience oral sex is always good, whether you are giving or recieving.
Really, I would have assumed at some point or another every one of us has had just the plain simple proposition of sex itself be rejected, never mind proceeding to actual selection of specific routines.