Isn’t it usually the woman who’s supposed to balk at the idea of daily sex? 
And, if I may ask, why only “briefly,” and “many years ago?”
I got inspiration from God to return to the straight and narrow.
Provided I’m not whooshed, does this mean you are now celibate for religious reasons and have been for many years? Are you mayhap even a nun (of an order that allows net-connected computers, of course)? If either, I’d be interested in an “Ask the [celibate/nun]” thread.
I’ve been there. She described it as “Oedipal”, which does make sense in a way, I suppose. Funny thing was, we’d been doing that for months when she made this decision, then changed her mind again a few weeks later.
I had an eighteen-year-old boyfriend who wouldn’t do it more than once a week. Maybe twice, if I really begged.
Gave me a bit of a complex, it did. :rolleyes:
I am celibate for religious reasons, and have at times felt a calling to become a nun. Not there yet, but perhaps partway there, as an option. You could ask me here, I guess, I can’t imagine how much interest there would be in no action.
Sorry, I didn’t see this. Exactly! Shouldn’t he be ready to go too??
I think I was married to him! My first husband woudn’t (couldn’t?) do it more than once a week. He was 24 when we got married.
I understand the complex…
A college girlfriend didn’t like to give or receive oral, but she was constantly horny and we’d have missionary or cowgirl sex as often as we could get some alone time- which usually only happened a few times a week. On my birthday she treated me to oral and let me do her in return, but only because we were pretty liquored up and we slathered each other in whipped cream. So it was more like a sexual dessert for her, b/c she couldn’t face the idea of actually putting that thing in her mouth.
The horror!
Nah, I think “Ask the woman who’s thinking of becoming a nun” would get a lot of action.
So to speak.
Something in that.
The boyfriend says that he doesn’t get off on oral sex, so I usually don’t give it to him. Which is kind of sad because I don’t mind doing it. I will as part of foreplay or whatever, and he says I’m really good at it (he best not be lying!) but I just think it’s kind of weird. But we have regular sex quite a bit when we see each other so it’s not really like anything is lacking. Sometimes a girl just wants a dick in her mouth, ya know?
KIDDING. I’m kidding. That was crass.
I hear you. Oddly, I had the same thing going on in high school in the 70’s, gf would absolutely not blow me (but I ate her out) but was damn enthusiastic about taking it in the ass, hard. Odd tradeoff, never got what was going on in her head about not giving head…
Had a few girlfriends that didn’t like to kiss me after I gave oral. Even after wiping my face off on the sheets.