Might have something to do with having a job where I interview people both in person and over the phone. It’s a positive community role so I tend to see lots of people trying their best and helping others.
And I went to a party last night where I knew everyone and was helping others connect.
I get the feeling that my number would have been quite a lot higher at other points in my life.
I work in civil service, so I’m all about details anyway. And I’m not crazy about mindless chitchat, but I think I can hold up my end of the exchange okay.
“I find it difficult to interpret questions about whether I usually concentrate more on the whole picture than on small details, and whether I usually notice small details about a person’s appearance”: Strongly Agree
My biggest points are social situations; I’m not socially anxious or really a loner, but I almost universally prefer being around one or two people. Groups make me uncomfortable and frequently bored.
Seriously, I’ve always suspected I have Asperger’s, or something along those lines, because I have had problems in dealing with social situations since I was a child, tend not to look people in the eye (something I’ve had to train myself to make a conscious effort to do), tend to obsess on some things most people aren’t really into, and would rather be reading a book than attend a party. Not sure how much good such a diagnosis would do at my age, though.
I think you’re in the lead but only by a point. You will require further training. (just kidding).
I feel the same way about the value of a diagnosis. But one thing it does is give you a sort of validation. It makes you realize that there is a legitimate reason why you aren’t like everyone else and that any inclination you might have toward self recrimination is probably misplaced.
I’m probably projecting my own feelings there and I shouldn’t do that. But I have no doubt at least some of the people here know what I mean.