It may seem strange to you, but my favorite love story movie is As Good as it Gets (1997)
It stars Jack Nicholson, Helen Hunt and Greg Kinnear and starts out with both Nicholson and Hunt living miserable lives for different reasons. Eventually, it dawns on them that in order to be happy, what they need most is each other.
I know there are much more popular films and maybe even films with better stories. But no other film has ever gotten to me like this one did.
It could happen to you. Where stand up guy cop promises waitress half his lotto winnings as a tip. And he wins. They get rich, problems follow, they get screwed out of the money, then fall in love and wind up with everything!
I also like Love Actually a lot; the backlash against it is a sad commentary on how we no longer believe in romance.
Favorite? Hard to say. The ones I think of offhand are those where the love story is not the main focus of the plot (e.g, Casablanca, Singin’ in the Rain). The Thin Man is great for its portrayal of a long-term loving relationship, but that’s only a small part of it.
I always liked Sense and Sendibility (Ang Lee). I found Elinor to be quite relatable emotionally for me. Also, aside from that, it’s just a well put together movie. Great cast.
I’m not romantic and I loathe rom-coms. But I love ‘Waterloo Bridge’, ‘La Belle et La Bete’, and ‘Pride and Prejudice’. These are the versions all made in the 40’s and are splendid movies I never get tired of.
I’ve never seen a good love story in a movie, and I’m not convinced it’s possible. A good love story takes a lot of time. In a two-hour movie, you have room for infatuation, or lust, or an already-established love, but you don’t have room for the whole messy complicated process.
Now, a TV show, over the course of a few seasons, yeah, that’s doable. The best example that comes to mind is Adama and Roslin from Battlestar Galactica.