A very nice smile. I don’t think this smilie is a good example: 
Problems?? What, next you’ll be telling me you don’t like excessive back hair and withering flatulence, either!
I like the way you think. 
Thick head of hair.
Good muscles.
Tall.
Can hold his booze, pay his way, and crack me up.
Hehehe I agree with Giraffe. Gimme a guy with confidence, humor, tenderness. I want a guy with intelligence and can carry on a conversation , one as confortable in a tux as jeans and one that believes I am the center of his being
Creaky is squieeeeking to 1000 posts
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Apparently having a first name of Joe…50 million clams, and a chateau in France seems to get the chickies.
(what about post counts approaching 3K…that has to count for something ladies…right?)
Women like men who are very, very kind and generous to their older brothers.
Kindness without being too wimpy. Honesty, but knowing how to judge whether a lie is a necessity in a situation. Guys who are funny, but not too silly. Maturity, but not too much of a ‘stick in the mud’.
Do you see what I’m getting at?
If all women were…me, I’d say your best bet is:
tight jeans and pointy eyebrows.
But then, I also like guys who smell like a mixture of dirty hair and stale cigarette smoke, so you might want to take my suggestion with a grain of salt.
in one word…Rico
owwwwwwwww
A great sense of humor, tall, handsome, graying, gentle but not to gentle. out going, friendly, intelligent. did i mention tall and handsome? musical. great deep voice! tender but not to tender. sensitive but not to sensitive. tall (6’7") and handsome. confident, thick head of hair, good cook, great smile, tall and handsome.
I could go on and on and on and on…
I am truly a very lucky woman!
While I agree with you on the most part, my experience is the last bit on actively approaching women is merely optional.
My take on confidence is the quiet sort, there is no need to broadcast it to everybody in the vicinity. It comes from within, from having competence in doing things.
I’ll bring the oil.
Happiness is handsome. Have a more positive and cheerful outlook on things, and people will just naturally tend to be attracted to you, both as friends and dating partners. Confidence is also a big help.
All the boys that have caught my eyes… were…UNIQUE.
If you are going out with your chums for a drink, don’t dress just like them. Don’t cut yoru hair just like them. Don’t blend in with them.
Stick out somehow. Get some style… be eccentric… be quirky…express yourself thru your appearance.
Go places alone. Don’t be afraid to eat lunch alone. You make yourself more available and more approachable that way.
You could be the most shy guy there ever was… but if you always wear your signature red stripped sneakers… or stripped beanie…(something to stick out from the heard) chances are you will be more memorable to the ladies.
*Get a bowling shirt…or somekinda thing with A NAME, your NAME, ANY NAME on it… and guaranteed people will use it. Even if it’s NOT yoru name, it gives you an excuse to prolong the convo when you tell them it aint my name… i’m loaning the shirt… or whatever bulljive you want to say.
I once wore a button on my backpack that said “ASK ME FOR FREE COOKBOOKS”. it was a promotion button that I stole from my boyfriends work place. Everywhere I went people would come up and and ask me for a cookbook. they were only teasing/joking of course, but it was an “easy in” to approach me. A nice ice breaker, conversation piece.
Try something like that.
I dunno. I find Airman’s excessive back hair and withering flatulence to be rather, ah, endearing.
[sub]Would you quit giving me that look?[/sub]
What attracts me to Airman, aside from his charm and good looks, is his amazing sense of humor, intelligence, and patience. He’s an awesome dad, and takes an interest in Aaron and Aaron’s life.
Robin
A kilt. Hey, works for me…my wife loves it, her friends love it, and I get compliments from women every time I wear it…
I’m so there.
You know, I give my wife long massages 3+ times a week while we are lying in bed watching TV for the evening. Sometimes they last for hours, with her resting against my chest and me brushing her hair… rubbing her shoulders… scratching and massaging her scalp… working the neck… all while we are talking. I’ve been doing it (regular massages) for years, almost since we started dating.
You ought to try it some time.
someone who can speak to you, or start a legitimate conversation without behaving like a tool.
genuine interest in people provokes the desire to talk, and also the fear of saying something stupid or being rejected… so the ones who can bypass that fear because they are intent on speaking to someone who intriques them, is definately attractive.
a guy who dresses for himself and not for the world, a guy who IS himself and not who the world tries to make him, creativity, humour, SPONTANAETY!! (sp) Honesty, Ability to talk openly without worrying who is going to judge them, Diverse tastes in everything from music to wierd socks - The more unique the better.
Sexy lips and being tall doesnt hurt either - but those dont make a guy a good guy, they just add to his already present charm 
Handy (14,000 posts! :eek: ) had it right on when s/he said: “Surest way to attract a female if you’re a male is borrow a cute puppy or kitten & take it with you to the park.”
My only addition to that comment is that you will do very well if the puppy is a basset hound puppy, for there is nothing more adorable. Period.