I’ve often wondered what it must be like to be a good-looking woman. I’m sure they feel good about themselves most of the time and in general get their pick of men. But I wonder what it must be like having men ogle you all the time or having to fend off unwelcome interest from them.
Some women have been considered attractive all their lives. Some are late bloomers who might have been considered plain as children or adolescents, but who, with make-up and a bigger wardrobe budget or even plastic surgery, have become much more attractive as adults. Still others might have gone from attractive to plain over the years. I’ve wondered what kind of difference that might make.
So here are a few specific questions to start the discussion. Others might arise as the thread proceeds.
In what specific cases have your good looks been an advantage or disadvantage?
How do you react to the gazes of strangers?
How do you react to the gazes of people you know?
How do you deal with unwelcome advances from men with whom you’d rather not have anything to do?
Do you suspect that men who don’t come on to you directly are nevertheless trying to be friendly in hopes of someday taking things in a romantic direction?
For late bloomers, do you feel you’re now getting the attention you deserve, or do you have a feeling of sorrow or contempt that looks alone can make so much of a difference in one’s life?
Do you think that you’re unattractive even though people seem to react to you as though you were?
Do you think that you’re attractive, but people aren’t reacting to you as they do to other attractive women?