… uh, yeah. It piques my curiosity why that, of all the things in the list, is worth the interrobang.
DLuxN8R-13 - if you wouldn’t mind sharing the basic setup of your sweatbox, I’d be interested to read. I’ve run across a couple of sense-dep and vacuum boxes that ended up making the subject sweaty, but never one that was meant specifically for the purpose. Inquiring minds would like to know.
Oh, I forgot to mention the toys. I feel so vanilla compared to what you fine folks have rigged up here!
a basic hard plastic vibrating Dildo, 7".
a smaller pink vibrator, with a swollen end. That’s used pretty much for clit or anal play only.
a specialty red thing, advertised as an “anal T”, with a variable speed wired control
a wide blue thing, short and stubby with rotating beads that stop rotating. we purchased it for anal usage, but it turns out it doesn’t vibrate, which kind of kills the point for the missus.
DLuxN8R-13 I am curious about your fuck machine. Is it homemade, or did you purchase it?
we have some linen ties, and I keep intending to buy some rope and such, but always forget.
My wife and I are only recently getting into a place where she’s comfortable with toys, so slowly but surely we’ll be adding some.
We also hope to get out to a special place in July that has a Sybian. She has promised, if we can get there, that’s she’ll give it a try…
I am poor, and have limited space, so right now I have two basic vaguely-phallic vibrators, a plug-in massager I bought when my old vibrator died and my new ones hadn’t arrived yet, and a dildo and harness kit which is winging its way to me now. There are lots of things I want, but haven’t bought because they’re more fun, or only usable at all, with someone else (like restraints) and I haven’t anywhere to store much. My little toy bag is nearly full, as it holds not only the toys I mentioned, but condoms, wipes, and lube.
Answers to various questions regarding our equipment:
RE: The fuck machine:
we purchased it online. Not a Sybian; I’m not sure what the brand name is at this point though. It’s a basic electrical motor setup with a piston rod that one screws a dildo onto; I am not mechanically proficient enough to be able to descriobe it much better, sorry. Anyway there is a control box with an on-off switch and a speed dial that goes from 0 to 10; the depth of thrust is adjusted by means of a bar attached to the piston set-up.
**RE: The sweatbox: **
it is just what it sounds like, a box made out of heavy duty plywood about 4’X6’X5’high, with a chair and some eyebolts in it; the subject crawls into it and is usually compelled to restrain himself thertein, then the sliding door is lowered making exit impossible until it’s opened from outside. There are holes for air, a halide light inside which is controlled from outside, a heating unit rigged up likewise, and a fisheye peephole drilled in it at a strategic point so the subject can be monitored without his knowledge… The primary victim was made to build it himself, to specifications proper for his own utmost discomfiture; two persons have been successfully detained in it on more than one occasion.
I don’t think I understand. Are you saying you’re looking for someone who owns a Sybian and will let you try it so you can write a review? Or are you saying you are looking for someone who is eager to try one and you can help them get access to one? Or is this something else entirely?
I know at one time they were available as rentals, but that stopped as AIDS became a bigger deal. I’m not sure sharing sex toys is a good idea, even ones as sturdily built, easy to clean, and mind-blowing as a Sybian.
I initially perceived these two questions as related, which I found very confusing.
It’s a pretty good game, if you’re into sensuality – it can be pretty long, 2 hours to finish. I actually would really recommend it for couples just getting to know one another sexually. It’s sort of like the sexual equivalent of an icebreaker at first – massages and kisses, and as you go along gets more and more sexual, ending in a random intercourse position. I haven’t played it since I started having intercourse, so we always skipped that part… but… well, I’ll get back to you.
As to the second question, I have a bed with no posts but it has drawers underneath it. We tie the ropes to the drawer handles. It works for now.
No legs, either. It’s a weird bed. I suppose we could just start by tying my arms over my head. Either that or try it on the coffee table. Which does have legs.
We don’t have a bed, just a mattress and box spring on the floor. Our velvet ties are nailed to the floor at the corners of the bed. Once we move into a house (tiny apartment now) we’ll splurge -HA!- and buy a bed that we can tie stuff to. Preferably one from bondage beds dot com.
There are still lots of ways:
-Hands behind back
-Hands to ankles
-Hands over head and another rope to tie them to something else
-Rope on one ankle, all the way under the bed and attached again to the other ankle
I don’t think I want to try it, as I am a guy. But I have seen videos of women enjoying it, and was suggesting that if a Doper lady had one, I would be glad to observe her use and report back.
At first I thought that was a tawdry item available only in gritty little stores out on the access road, but it’s available at Amazon. :eek: So, is it any good?
ABCO, the makers of the Sybian, still offers a money-back guarantee, accepting returns of the unit for up to 45 days, minus a $125 reconditioning fee. The actual “inserts” are of course not returnable.
The health hazards of sharing sex toys are far less than contact with another human being. Quality sex toys can be cleaned with dilute bleach or by boiling - which is more than you can say about human beings.