what should i do?????

i currently work for a small dot com company (in Toronto) that recently merged with another small internet company. Last January, i decided to move back home (Hamilton, Ontario Canada, 45 min drive without traffic) to get my shit together. At the time, we all thought that the company i worked for was going to fold, so i went on a job search and found a job significantly closer to my home. The day i sent in my letter of acceptance, my boss called to beg me not to accept the new postion because the new company wanted to keep me on. i wasn’t too sure i wanted to do the commuting thing, but at the same time i liked my job. so i agreed to stay on providing they give me raise to cover they top the salary of the closer to home job offer. that turned out to be $35,000 CDN. to get back and forth from hamilton to toronto, 5 days a week costs me $269.00/month. i had recently asked my boss to subsidize my transportation costs to and from work. i have no expense report to hand in every month, but i’ve noticed, only because he asked to to write out some cheques for him, that he expenses his travel expenses ( 407 ETR, a highway that a pay-per-use, which he doesn’t even have to use!) and his wife’s cell phone and her BlackBerry handheld. He has basically told me that because i have these wonderful health benefits (100% medical,vision etc) that he cannot help me out. i’m trying to pay off all my old debts and am trying to save all that i can. i could just as easily find a job in hamilton, but if i do, i take all my knowledge with me and it leaves them with zero.

my fellow employees think that it it grossly unfair. that he should at least cover $169.00 because if i lived in toronto, it would cost $100 for a monthly pass.
What should i do? How should i approach him? Am i right for asking?

Telecommute a few days a week.

can’t for a couple of reasons…
#1 i am the callcentre. i do telecommute every once in a while…but this leads me to reason #2 i live at home. my mom is one of those people who think thatif you’re at home, you’re not working. she harrasses me to no end. she thinks i’ll be fired for doing so even though i tell her i won’t. she just can’t grasp her mind around the fact that they will pay me whether i’m there or not…she thinks my job is some sort of scam…so she’ll go on and on and on…don’t want to hear it.