Thanks for the idea, Cervaise. My wife loved it. Sure to be a hit when MIL and SIL come over x-mas eve!
(The bracelet around the tail is an ever-correct homage to the tigers in Little Black Sambo.)
I’m not sure what you or your wife should do. But I know about shitty fathers. My paternal grandmother died a few months ago. My brother keeps in contact with them. They called my brother to find out where I was living and what my name was.
That? Was a happy day. They don’t even know my name. I was listed in the obituary with my maiden name, no location mentioned.
I’ve lived in fear of my father finding me, not because he can physically harm me any more, but because of the complete psychological bullshit that ensues past the “hello.” The day I get the call he is dead will be a very, very happy day.
Don’t let him know your wife or children. Protect her, especially if she is unable to protect herself. Ask her what she wants from her father and make sure that happens. Intercept the mail, screen the calls, whatever. You can honor her best by using what you know about her to protect her, especially from those that would harm her.
Maybe I’m a sentimental, shades-of-grey wishy washy person, but I have a big, strong man who makes sure that part of me does not waver when it comes to my paternal relatives.
That’s even more completely awesome than I could have imagined. I’m honored at the, uh, honor.
Also, that is one sexy canine; just needs some stiletto heels and a little black handbag.
If she truly wants no contact with her father, I agree with the people that say “No acknowledgement at all” Shred checks, don’t return calls, don’t acknowledge gifts. As others have said, that will give him a crack in the door.
As for the jewelry, I’d donate it to charity, but your wife is not obliged to do so.
great pics! you wife did mention she thought of the necklaces as dog collars, yes? perfect use.