I’m going to answer generally:
Clever, quick wit. I love a person who can make me laugh, or make me think, or make me argue (probably why I have crushes on all the Men of the SD)
Hair. Doesn’t matter if it’s long or short…if it’s cut “right” and kept clean, I’m all about it. If 99% percent of the hair is on top of his head, and the other one percent is in pubic regions or on the legs, that much better. I’m not a huge fan of chest or back hair.
Fingers. Particularly long, nimble fingers, with clean, cut nails and ink-stained fingertips.
Physical Expression. I love a guy that dances, sings, acts, laughs… the strong silent type has (in my experience) always turned out to be a controlling piece of shit.
Belly. Not that I can say the same for myself, but I like a six-pack. NOT a gross, oily, hill-n-valley belly… just a touch of tone.
It wouldn’t hurt for him to have more than a passing resemblance to Joseph Fiennes.
Veni, Vidi, Visa … I came, I saw, I bought.