For most first timers I usually suggested either the fukuoko or a inexpensive pocket rocket or something similar. Not everyone like the sensation of a vibe (hard to believe I know). For one thing, it’s not like a “regular” orgasm, there is not the same build-up. You are just hapily buzzing along and BANG! But I digress…
The Fukuoko is a lovely small, finger-mounted, one speed vibe that is both easy to use and non threatening (don’t want to start you off with something like the Hard Throb Twelve Inch or anything). It’s not too expensive, around 20 - 30 bucks depending on where you go. The Crystal Rabbit , can be VERY expensive.
If you want to try out something like the Rabbit to see if you like it may I recommend the Blue Dolphin ? It’s pretty similar, just cheaper. If you like it, you can always go to the higher end later.Also, if you would like to try something for the two of you, the Cascade was always popular. As a side benefit the Cascade is powered by two bullets so you get those too.
I have heard good things about the Hitachi magic Wand, but have never tried it or sold it.
You can also buy small sampler packs. The vibes aren’t the best for durability, but it gives you a cheap way to find out what you like.
You can also get them waterproof, if you intend to use them in the shower or tub, which is nice if that is your only guaranteed alone time.
There are also wearable options, nice of you are a big mover and shaker
The one we sold mostly was the Venus Butterfly
I can’t stress my last two points enough.
Get a GOOD lube, and get some sex-toy cleaner
Regular soap can really break down the materials, SAFE SUDS is a nice inexpensive one.
Try the vibe out in the store, on your hand and under your nose. If it’s uncomfortable there it’s going to feel bad on your other areas. Also, some vibes are VERY LOUD, somthing to consider. Alot of them now have remote controls with lots of variables, as you can see by the links.
Good Luck and happy vibin’