It’s a textbook example of gaslighting. 
Yeah. Around puberty for me. I had a safe and unmolested childhood. But it’s really fucking obvious. There’s zero chance she was confused at the time. I suppose it’s possible that testifying years later, she might have transposed two men in her memory or something. But did she know it was attempted rape? Hell yes. And either it was or she is lying.
Is it possible he was playfully holding her down on the bed for some other non-sex related reason? /s
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I can think of no reason a decent person would ask that in this context.
If you’re referring to Love_Rhombus’s post, the /s at the end indicates that the reason is deliberate sarcasm. LR is making it clear that such a thing is, shall we say, ludicrously unlikely.
I am so sorry I misunderstood, my apologies!
ETA lately I feel extra dumb 
No worries. I shouldn’t have assumed that knowing what “/s” means is common knowledge. I only learned about it a month or so ago.
What a doofus.
/s
Thanks for the compliment. /s
Bless your heart. /!s
How delightful to see such loving kindness. /s
Does “bless your heart” even need a sarcasm tag?
(I’m from the Northeast and may not have the nuance right. But that’s the only way I’ve ever seen it used.)
When used ironically, no, when used by the original group, I always read it as condescending, rather than sarcastic. Mostly, in that they’re blessing your poor, immoral, possibly heathen soul who’s doomed to hell and so very wrong, but in the nicest possible way.
At least, that’s the usage I picked up from my step-father’s very conservative, very Christian, very rural Texas family. And as I am and remain NONE of those things, well, my perspective may be biased and incomplete. I’m sure there are those people out there that mean it in a postive, not condescending way, and I know plenty who use it in the ironic/sarcastic way, but I haven’t every experienced anyone actually using it in what I would consider a positive way.
I always imagine someone patting a person’s head like they were a dog when that phrase is used that way.
I’ve now totally had it with ignorant fucker Jackson99 who started a thread in IMHO on “How did Canada become more culturally public transit than the US?”.
I can forgive the fact that that’s not even English, and neither are his posts, but what I cannot forgive is that he apparently already knows the answer to the question, is stubbornly resistant to all the evidence that his answer is completely wrong, and no amount of information from the lived experience of those of us who have been raised, lived, and worked in large Canadian cities all our lives can stop him from droning on and on about his asinine misconceptions. The stubborn ignorance of this fucking moron is kind of like DrDeth on steroids.
I finally laid out the facts one last time as clearly as I could and told the dumbfuck that there was no point in having any further conversations with him. To which he responded with another lengthy diatribe and a bunch of maps to show me that I had no idea what I was talking about regarding this place where I had lived and worked most of my adult life. He just won’t learn, and just won’t stop. Now I’m just ignoring the dumbfuck, and suggest that others might want to do the same.
There is something very obtuse about that dude. He’s either dumb as a fucking post or is a provocateur. I can happily help educate the reasonably smart but ignorant who’ve been failed by our schooling system and/or their life circumstances.
But stupid and ignorant are two very different problems and you (well me anyway) can’t fix stupid.
I may be late to the party, but SunTanLotion has been doing a very credible imitation of an all mouth / no ears moron in the thread that was originally “Stuff Scientists have Recently Learned about COVID” which moderator puzzlegal has subsequently split off the Pit-relevant parts into a new thread as “Revisiting covid denial and covid restrictions”
It’s not real clear what this lady thinks, but it’s clear she doesn’t think much. She dropped some wanna-be BF guy who was too anti-vax for her tastes, but meanwhile all COVID precautions are an Attack on Freedom with No Basis in Science.
Wow, that takes an especially highly developed skill at cognitive dissonance.
So is “Le_Ministre_de_l_au-dela” French for “Karen”? Because he really, really wishes to speak to Facebook’s manager.
Up to now I’ve considered the suntan gal to be mostly harmless and even pleasantly entertaining at times, but you’re absolutely right that in this case she’s gone off the deep end. She’s now going on about pandemic precautions being liberty-depriving tyranny laying the groundwork for a future dictatorship. She’s typical of the sort of utterly uninformed doofus that is allowed to vote, and pretty much explains the current state of the USA.
Meanwhile, in the public transit thread, our friend Jackson99 is still going at it. Thank you for your corroboration about the “dumb as a fucking post” angle. I’m extremely reluctant to put anyone on ignore, but as a compromise between that principle and my blood pressure, I put the dumbfuck on temporary ignore.
The reason I’ve not said much about SuntanLotion is that it seems so out of character for her that I wondered if she has a medical thing making her more paranoid than normal. She was entirely reasonable at the start when she asked her question.
I kept debating bringing her up as I didn’t think attacks would do much good. So I tried stuff in-thread. But even then I hesitate to post while she’s starting to seem more rational again.