"What will happen to Catholics and others . . . ?"

Hey, increasing the irrelevance of the Catholic Church is but one of the many happy benefits of gay marriage.

Especially with Benedict in charge. He is not what one would call progressive.

I’m gonna go out on a limb and speculate Benedict’s Papacy won’t last 50 years.

I’ve never understood why religious opinions seem to get a pass, and are untouchable by criticism. People are responsible for the beliefs they choose to embrace, and religious beliefs are no exception. If you believe in stupid things, you shouldn’t be surprised when people consider you stupid, and act accordingly.

Can you give an example of another change in fundamental doctrine Catholics have made?

He seems like the kind of guy who’ll hang on from sheer force of will. However, his election to the papacy tells me that the college of cardinals is moving away from the ecumenical reforms of John Paul II and I would not be surprised if the next several popes are as conservative and traditional as he is.

He was one of the architects of Vatican II (maybe the most sweeping reform in Church history), long before he was John Paul II’s leg-breaker. I’m not a fan in general, but he deserves a little more credit than he gets.

Even more than the Reformation? Wow.

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I don’t really care what he did 40+ years ago. Now that he’s pope, he’s basically a hatemonger.

Who here said they get a pass? Of course they shouldn’t. If you’re arguing that by law, they should be forced to perform SSM, that’s a different ball game. (Of course, it’s late and I’m half-asleep, so I could just be totally misreading you)

MrWhatsit provided one: Marriage annulment, which is an obvious bullshit work-around to avoid the prohibition on divorce.

The thing that struck me was the blogger’s view of his relationship with his teacher. He asked his teacher for an opinion and then is affronted when the opinion is given without emotion and despite the fact that the teacher knew he would disagree with it. His confidence in the teacher was shaken.

WTF? Should a teacher be respected for telling students what they want to hear? Or for sugarcoating things for adult students? What does this guy expect?

A question just occurred to me: If a man marries a woman who turns out to be infertile, it’s a safe bet he’ll be granted an annulment by the RCC if he doesn’t want to stay married to her.

The question is, would the clergy be happy or unhappy about it? Would they encourage him to stay with her in the name of the sanctity of marriage, not to mention compassion for his poor wife? Or would they encourage him to leave her and find someone he can have children with? After all, being married to an infertile spouse is anti-procreation. You’re not creating new life, which the Church maintains is all-important. You might as well be using contraceptives, or indeed, you might as well be gay.

Annulment has always been a practice by the church - it’s not a recent one.

Y’all stopped burning protestants at the stake, didn’t you?

Possible Nitpick Alert: The Reformation is generally understood to refer to the Protestant Reformation, which can’t be said to have been a major change in Roman Catholic Church history. On the other hand, it led directly to the Counter-Reformation, which was indeed an RCC internal matter. The Counter-Reformation as a whole led to more changes than Vatican II, but with one crucial caveat: the C-R was a series of ecumenical councils and decrees during a period that lasted for over a century. Vatican II lasted three years.

As to the original post: people who write these things seem to assume that the US would be entering completely unexplored territory if it had marriage equality laws, as if no one had ever done it before. But there are already ten countries that have full marriage equality, and around twenty more that have some form of legal partnership for same-sex couples. Rather than fret about what might happen, why not look at the reality of what has happened in those countries?

Because then the anti-SSM crowd has to face the terrible, horrible truth that the answer is…not much.

No, I’m not arguing for any kind of force. How did you infer that, from what I said?

No need to look to other countries. There are several states where SSM is legal in the US already.

And the first state to legalize it, MA, is heavily Catholic.