I know this is a tough question, and in a sense meaningless - but I am trying to understand the differences between the strengths of two types of love:
Assuming you are in love with your spouse, and have a strong and healthy relationship and, assuming you have 2 young children and you love them the way a loving parent loves his/her children…
Who would you choose if forced to make a choice between being left on a desert island with either just your spouse or just your children?