I’ve been reading some of the posts on quitting drinking and making the decision whether or not to get some help or to go to AA*, and have decided to open a post about making that fateful decision. In this post when I use the term “…In the Rooms…” I’m refering to being in the halls of an AA meeting.
More and more I am seeing people on these boards who are talking about drinking, and people entering the rooms wondering if they may infact be an alcoholic or not. Maybe they are drinking a little too much, or maybe it has progressed to a place where they must drink or fix first thing in the morning to avoid the shakes or other nasty side effects of having a problem. Either one is irrelevant, and I am certainly not opening this thread to tell anyone what to do or how to do it. I’m simply opening up this question to those who are either in the rooms and comfortable talking about this subject or to those who are simply lurking and want to fnd out a little bit about the differences between being a heavy drinker and an alcoholic.
The question is not an easy one and it comes up nearly everyday at beginners meetings across the globe I’m sure. Do I drink too much, am I an alcoholic, where is the line. Most people with a little sobriety will say that if you feel you have a problem then more than likely you do. I’ve seen everything in the rooms from soccer moms hiding booze in their kids gatorade bottles, to lawyers drinking before they hit the court room floor for litigation, to regular Jack and Janes who drink to settle their nerves and it goes from never drinking before 5pm to 4, 3, 2 then drinking when you wake up.
What does the populace at large think of heavy drinking? Is there a difference between a heavy drinker and an alcoholic? How about the use of a program, is it needed? How do you know when you have to go into a program?**
*this is in no way an endorsment of AA.
** MODS this could perhaps be a GD… Please move it if necessary…