Well, I was just a kid, but it still makes me cringe…
I was very tactless, and it took me a long, long time to mature, think before I spoke, and stop being such a smartass. In the long run it has made me a kinder person, I think, but man, oh man, I had a long, hard youth because of this sort of thing. :smack:
I was about seven years old, and swimming in a tadpole-hole in the quarry with about a dozen other kids. An older girl was trying to teach me how to float, but I just couldn’t seem to get the hang of it. Later on, one of the kids’ grandfather came to pick us up with his ATV (we rode in a simple wooden trailer attached to the back that he used to haul farm stuff around). We all piled on the back and let the wind dry us off as we sped out of the pit.
As we were cruising along, we spoke to each other, but because of the speed we were going, the bumps, the creaking of the trailer, the ATV, and the wind making so much noise, we had to yell at each other to speak. The girl who was trying to teach me to float was teasing me about my not being able to, and I yelled back at her, taking the joking jabs in good humour with my own smartass remarks. At some point, one chubby girl, who was then a friend of mine, spoke up:
“I’ve never had any trouble being able to float!”
This little gem of mine quickly severed the friendship ties:
“That’s because FAT FLOATS!” I yelled triumphantly, thinking I had just unleashed the wittiest of retorts upon them all, and saying it even louder to ensure everyone heard my cleverness.
It just didn’t end well. :smack:
You know that extra weight I’ve been carrying around lately? Yeah. That’s karma.
And ice cream. But there’s some karma in there, too. Wee bit in the corner.