I for one have never believed that, just because the thread is in the pit the requirement for civility and reason fly out the window. The pit should be the place for anger, yes, but not for lack of reason.
Thankyou to those who don’t appear to view the BBQ Pit as their own private Mediocratic Feudal World (because they HAVE NO SOCIAL LIFE in the real world) - So thanks to Khiadra in particular, and to Miller, Jonathan Chance, & Worldeater.
And Brutus, I see no evidence that Finnagain has an intelligence level that even meets the criterion for Submoronity. Otherwise, he wouldn’t tell another human being to get out of a thread that concerns issues pertinent to the whole human race, the arrogant heap of shit. THAT attitude was what I was Pitting, not the silly words he/she/it used.
“Howth Castle” evidently is situated in the Land of Social Retards Suffering from Megalomania. Go and interact with some real, live human beings for a change.
You don’t have to be an asshole just cause it’s the Pit. We have some of the best discussions here.
When two posters are dragging a thread down with their personal little war, I would prefer to see them take it somewhere else.
I agree with World Eater - grow a thicker skin, and realize that this is just a message board. If someone insults you, you can respond or you can walk away.
Choose your words carefully here, unless you want to be called on them. And realize that you might get called on them anyway.
Think about what someone said to you that causes you anger; ask yourself if there’s any truth to it. If they’re right, be the bigger person and apologize or clarify. It’s good for you.
Get over it. Finnagain was a dink, but there’s no rule that says anyone has to be nice.
Asking for a thread to be locked judst because you, as the OP, are gettinmg your ass handed to you is poor sportsmanship. And Brutus’s posts in this thread have made him my new Straightboy Crush of the Month.
Sally: Welcome to the Dope. If you’re interested in intelligent rational discussion, you’ve found the best site on the 'net. The search feature alone is worth the price of registration, as virtually any question you have has already been discussed, complete with cites and people applying some critical thinking.
You’ll also find, as I did, that the Dope really is a community of sorts, and has its own culture. I learned this the way most people here did, I’m sure. I screwed up at first.
I still fuck up, and do my best to learn from it.
I would also suggest lurking, a lot. At least at first. It took me quite some time to grok the gestalt of this place, and I still do not grok in fullness.
In any case, I doubt I’ll get a retraction on your claim that I protect rapists. And I doubt that this thread will coalesce into some pool o’ gnosis. It can be locked if the mods feel like it.
Finn, you misinterpreted a statement I made. Sally got it right the first time she read it, and rather nicely pointed it out. You jumped on her, because at that point you were being defensive (yes, I was, too. I think everyone in that thread was.) I wouldn’t say you deserved a pitting for it, because Pit wise, it was a pretty mild retort, but I can see why she felt jumped on.
Oh, and welcome, Sally. You’re way ballsier than I am. I stayed out of the Pit for a good long while after I got shouted down the first time.
As of post 184 you and I had already cleared up our misunderstanding. Post 185 was Sally’s first text that was posted to me.
As such I question this idea that she was trying to clear anything up, as everything already had been cleared up.
Moreoever, her post set up strawman (that I found frefrences to some of a popluation being bigoted). Implied that somehow stating those simple facts alone was confusing me, and essentially implied that I was trolling (ie looking for a big controversy that doesn’t exist.)
I did not believe that a proper response would exclude some well placed vitriol, but I really don’t see any more point to debating this issue. Shall we put it down?
Look, this thread is bad for my blood-pressure :smack: Rape is a very emotive and upsetting issue, and I just think its bad enough without all this anger, hostility, and, yes, snobbery towards some newer members coalescing in that thread. Thankyou Maureen for understanding what I was trying to say.
Yes, I know I’m a useless insult-creator, Pit People. I’m a law student, we are trained to insult people the old-fashioned way (that involves litigation as opposed to swear-words).