No one said he was a bad person or that he should become apathetic. We’re not picking on him. I merely pointed out that the problem exists in his head, not in her person, and that’s where it needs to be addressed.
Per your rain example; “Well, it isn’t going to stop raining, so what are YOU going to do about it?”
I could suggest moving to a desert where it doesn’t rain much. In this case that would be a very poor suggestion. “Just don’t work with women” :rolleyes: