Yep, I think that’s at least a major part of the problem, and it might be the whole problem. I’ve been in a relationship where I cared about him a lot more than he cared about me, and it HURTS when you figure that out.
If you can figure out a SOLUTION to such a relationship, let me know. I’m still wondering if there was something different that I could have done in that relationship, other than just breaking up with him.
I think the only solution actually is breaking up; you can’t make someone love you more than they do.
And it’s nearly impossible to pull back once you’ve gone there emotionally. I’m sure you see all of the potential for a great relationship with him. It sounds like you get along and enjoy each other’s company and I"m sure he cares about you. But there does come a point in many relationships that at least one person wants to take it to the next level and have more of a commitment and combined life. It just stinks when both people don’t reach that point at the same time, or one never does.
I feel for you and I hope that you’re able to come to a place where you’re happy and satisfied- with him or with someone else or with yourself.
Wow…I’m impressed. You got it right, didn’t bury your head in the sand. At least you know the truth now - yeah it hurts, but it’s better than being in the dark. Maybe in time he’ll grow more committed. I wish you luck.