I’m not talking about reading or listening to The Great Courses or other solitary activities, but where do you go to find other people you can talk to about stuff besides work, TV, sports, etc?
I belong to a book club-- and it is a SERIOUS book club with some thoughtful, smart people who have challenging and opposing opinions (which is fabulous)-- but this is just once a month. I also have a friend I meet for coffee and we do have stimulating conversations about a variety of things… but I could use much more. I feel like my brain is drying up.
I like to gossip and talk about makeup and the cute things my cats do as much as the next person (always like to hear a good pet story), but I also miss being with people who are curious about things, read everything under the sun, have weird insights, and enjoy posing unanswerable questions. There are plenty of them here at the SDMB, but I don’t know where to find them IRL. As I’ve gotten older, people like this have disappeared from my life.
Do you require this kind of stimulation (from others) in your life? If so, where do YOU find it?
Whenever I post a question like this that I think is pretty interesting, I never know if it will kick off a discussion, or just lie there like a dead thing in the road…