She doesn’t read the boards, but the ever-lovin’ Superdude has found a new Supergirlfriend to help keep him from falling victim to all of the perils that surround being a superhero. I suppose I can trust the “privacy” of the boards with her real first name, which is Chelsie. She and I have decided to team up to fight crime. And that’s not the only thing that having a partner’s good for, if you catch my drift. So, in an extreme effort of self-control, Supergirlfriend has decided that Superdude has no real reason to flirt uncontrollably with all the BoardBabes™, so he’s making a huge effort to scale back on that.
Yip.
Thanks so much for caring. Your attention to this matter has been duly noted. :rolleyes:
Cool stuff Kev! Good to know that I’m inspiring people all over to hook up! [sub]what you say it had nothing to do with me? Nonsence! … Really? oh…well… um, congrats anyway.[/sub]
Give Chelsie a big hug for me and be happy.
Sexcellent! So are you bringing her up for the SouthBendDope? Or does this new acquisition make a trip to the Bend pointless?
Congrats!
Congrats, Kev.
I was wondering where you’ve been hiding, guess I know. 
I was wondering how you had managed to stay [sub]mostly[/sub] clothed and unkissed these past few days. Congrats!
Good fer you! I am so happy.
Thanks, Munch and thinksnow. And to you, Medea’s Child. Think, you know the story, and of the girl, as we’ve discussed her before. *Munch, I’m working on having her there for it. But there are a couple of troublespots on her attending:
- She lives in Harrisburg, PA.
- She may not be able to get the time off from work, and
- Since she and I are getting together in Pittsburgh right before Thanksgiving, trying to steal her away again that quickly may cause EvilHusband to get suspicious.
If we can work those three out, she’ll be there with me. If not, I should still be able to do that one alone.
Cool beans!
She’s married?
[Bracing himself for a potential onslaught from different Dopers]
Yeah, she is. I’m not going to be niave enough to say “Oh, but this is different than every other loveless marriage. She really DOES mean to leave EvilHusband.” She says she is. I have no reason to disbelieve her. We started out as friends, and have grown closer. It may work out in the future, it may not. I’m hoping for the best, but living more for the moment than anything.
:eek
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Eh, whoops.
Well, I certainly am not going to pass judgment. My “eek” is only to express the fact that you have much bigger cohones than I do.
But you could at least tell us a little about her! Where’dja meet, what does she do, does she like cheese, you know, the important stuff.
super. don’t do it. DON’T DO IT.
This will all end in heartache. I 89% guarantee it.
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Wow. I don’t think you should be doing that man! Nothing good can come of this! Even if it is fun right now, it wil be less fun if/when she leaves him and starts cheating on you. It does not matter if it is a loveless marriage. It is a marriage, and you need to respect that as much as she does.
Unless you really don’t care and are actually just in it for the sex. In that case, carry on. You know what you are getting into.
–==the sax man==–
Jarbaby, at this point in my life I’d welcome being hurt and used. If nothing else, than just to make sure that I’m still capable of those things. I’ve been numb for quite a while now. Normally, emotions never make their way to my surface. So, when they do, I have to relish every second of their existence. Like I’m doing now
Munch, she’s someone that I’ve known for quite a while, now. She’s almost 29 (a few months older than me). She’s a respiratory therapist. She likes cheese (though we’re still not sure about Meunster). We started out as friends. She and my mom actually went to nursing school together. She married Bill for all the wrong reasons, and is currently living with the consequences in Harrisburg, PA. I’ve never really had light in my eyes, and she supplies that. At least for the time being. And me for her, or so she says. And, at the moment, I have no reason to disbelieve.
SMUsax, your reservations (and everyone else’s, too) are duly noted. But, realistically, every single relationship that people get into has the potential for disaster. Maybe this one has alittle more than most. But I’ve always lived by the credo that “anything for the cause is worth the price,” and the cause is my happiness. She may destroy me. I may destroy her. It’s a crapshoot.
We simulposted before, so I didn’t see the bit where she’s married. I’m glad you think you’ve found someone, but allow me to echo the other posters’ reservations. I’ve never heard of much good coming out of something like this.
You know, Juniper, I haven’t either. But the Law of Averages says it has to sometime, right? Why not now? If I may quote Adam Duritz, I get really tired of “so much rejection in every connection I make.” I’ve also never been someone to do something half-assed. If it works out, fantastic. If not, I lived, I learned.
A marraige based on the mutual admiration of Taj Mahal and Flock of Seagulls is a story as old as time, my friend.