White Anger!

So as we enter the Post-Trump era, I feel compelled to discuss a phenomenon I’ve witnessed long before Donald Trump that I like to call “White Anger[sup]TM[/sup]”. It’s kind of like this disproportional unthinking rage that something in the world should be different from how it should be. It’s not right-wing extremist or racism per se. I almost think it’s the opposite. That White Anger drives irrational extremism and racism. And it seems to transcend class. One might expect poor, working class or some middle class people to be frustrated by financial concerns, job frustrations, etc. But often it seems worse in the people who have the most.

Some examples:

  • Donald Trump himself is a good example. The guy is a billionaire and has basically led a charmed life since birth. So why does he seem so pissed off all the time?
  • Trumps followers, obviously. A lot of them aren’t stupid unemployed hicks. I know plenty of pro-Trump people who are educated and well-off.
  • Overbearing parents screaming at their mediocre kid’s soccer coach or teacher whenever their kid performs mediocrely.
  • Any time you see a “Karen” screaming at some barista because they got her order wrong. That fact that we have a slang term for an angry, entitled, white woman.
  • Classic characters in film and TV like Archie Bunker, Al Bundy, Red Foreman from That 70s Show, etc. I get it dude. Your life’s not perfect. Still seem pretty well off though for acting like such a horses ass.
  • Any of these reality shows on Bravo like Real Housewives which just seem to be affluent white people screaming at each other over every perceived slight.
  • Just the fact that in this day and age, you still have people who become infuriated at the idea of maybe not shooting people who are a different color or letting people marry whoever they want or just using their brain.
  • One might even come to the conclusion that the entire history of white people going back to the British Empire, the Romans, and Alexander the Great consists of meeting their neighbors and being like FUCK THESE DUDES!

Bumper sticker: American White People. Bitching and Moaning since 1776.

My observation, they have had the deck stacked in their favor for so long they don’t know what a fair game looks like.

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I saw that. And yes it was men in 1776. Only recently have women joined the tribe.

A sense of entitlement.

That’s what I get for being overly cautious. Knew I couldn’t put anything over on you.

Agreed about women (the Karens) recently joining the tribe. It’s been a sad decade or so. They make me cringe.

As my psychologist taught me, anger is a secondary emotion. It often arises due to trying to avoid some other, more uncomfortable feeling.

My thought is that it’s not just being used to the deck being stacked against them, but the discomfort at the thought that they may have had special privilege. It would, thus, ironically be their own “white guilt” causing them to lash out.

That said, it’s also definitely fear of losing something that causes the reaction, and fear is a clasic primary emotion leading to the secondary one of anger. People get angry at what they’re scare of quite often: hence the fight or flight reflex.

“Real Housewives” is staged and largely scripted. Is what you are complaining about that there is an audience for this dreck? Because I’m on board with that. My husband likes to watch, when there is nothing else on, because he likes to laugh at the stupid rich people.

This is the most unlikely thing I have seen posted in some time. First, the deck is not stacked against us white folks, it’s just not stacked in our favor quite as much as it used to be. This is not a nitpick, it is a very important distinction. As for white guilt, oh please. Among the few that might actually feel this, the secondary emotion is going to be shame, not anger.

Your following paragraph makes more sense, and is in contradiction to this one, but I didn’t want to let this stand out there un-addressed.

I suspect that @BigT meant to say “being used to the deck being stacked in their favor” (or whatever the expression would be) but misspoke?

Yes, correct. It doesn’t help that I was on mobile. I find it’s easier to mess up there.

The “angry white male” phenomenon has been recognized going back at least to the 1990s.

IMHO, one reason for some of this white anger is that human nature often does not care about equality, but rather, the feeling of equality.

If you have a privileged white person, and a nonprivileged nonwhite person, the white person may want a teacher or lecturer to address their disadvantages equally so that they sound equally disadvantaged. IOW, “this black person faces discrimination, has a harder time getting hired, lives in a poor neighborhood, but…this white person gets called cracker and it isn’t taken as seriously as the black person being called (N-word.) So they’re equally disadvantaged I guess.”

(Not just true of race, but also gender, religion, sports, politics, a thousand different things.)

I’m not sure how much the phenomenon is white. It’s more galling when the overprivileged are bitching, but I have to imagine plenty of non-white folks are doing the slow burn inside over the same sorts of slights, plus all the extra ones they get from being non-white. There’s no doubt the white anger is more noisy and more visible. At least to and among the other white folks.

What we have now is largely the result of 20+ years of elevating selfish entitlement to the highest ideal of the land. And just like a real bender of a party gets wilder as it gets later, then produces one heck of a hangover, there’s been an absolute shrieking crescendo of glorifying selfish entitlement as the Prime Directive Sole Objective of all Real Winners for the last ~5 years.

Folks been drinkin’ the BS faster and faster and faster. Now with a belly full of booze the party has suddenly sorta ended. But they’re still getting drunker as the booze absorbs into their blood and further pickles their brain.

There’s a reason a lot more fights happen just after closing time than an hour before.

The hangover won’t be pretty either.

I would argue that a lot of people (particularly those who enjoy a position of privilege) don’t really care about the “feeling” of equality either.

Which is seen in how the folks at the very top of that scheme are doubling down on that saying anything to the contrary is all about “hate” of the Real Winners, including, no, especially, hate of the not-so-well-off potential Real Winners. So they have to lash out even more angrily(*).

(* Because of course, we hateful losers are weak cowards who’ll run when confronted with angry lashing out, thus leaving them to retake their rightful selfish entitlement…)

While this is undoubtedly true, I don’t think it is just the sense of entitlement that is driving this anger. It isn’t as if entitled ‘Karens’ are just a phenomena that spontaneously popped up in the last couple of years, or that a bunch of middle-class white guys playing golf explaining to each other why they are so uniquely special and anyone who hasn’t accomplished their achievements is just lazy or stupid hasn’t been a perennial past-time since the first Scot decided to make use of all of this rocky, unfarmable land by getting someone to pay him for the privilege of chasing a small ball around it.

I think the anger is more a consequence of the fact that things like the economy, politics, employment, et cetera, seem more increasingly out of control, and unlike minorities who can legitimately point out that they have been excluded and denied fair participation, middle class white people don’t really have anyone to blame. So instead, they get angry at the social changes that are occurring, even if legalizing gay marriage or recognizing institutionalized racism aren’t the cause of them, and then blame the people who are agitating for such changes for being somehow ‘at fault’ for everything, because if the world had just stayed frozen circa 1955 they’d still be living on the fat of the land with big-finned cars and an endless supply of Olympia beer in the garage refrigerator.

That this utopian dream was never a reality even for middle class white folks isn’t the point; this is the marketing campaign that has been sold to them since the days of Reagan, and codified in Newt Gingrich’s and Dick Armey’s “Contract With America”. Reinforcing these ideas, and blaming everybody else who wasn’t on board for obstructing it has been the implicit mission statement of Fox News and other conservative propaganda outlets, who have managed to stir up anger and resentment over something so trivial as the president’s fashion sense or that someone wrote a childrens book about a a little girl with two mommies, and of course, the endless War On Christmas.

In this environment, with a large group primed to resent anybody who even speaks softly about a need for social change or equality, comes a candidate who looks like a parody of a wealthy magnate but talks in their language of resentment about how all of the “elites” don’t like him either because he speaks truth to power and will “drain the swamp”. The propagandists love him because he is the caricature they really want but no working politician will lower themselves to being (even Reagan, who reluctantly acquiesced to Trent Lott in dog whistling about “states’ rights”), and he’s suitably compliant and fungible to appeal to any of a wide array of “fellow travelers” from conservative Evangelicals looking for a literal anti-Christ to white nationalists and fascists seeking a figure to rally around.

Even though these different groups don’t really share a consistent set of political beliefs or ethics, they’re all in agreement that they are somehow being screwed over by progressive change, and Donald Trump, as ridiculous and inept as he is at, well, everything but especially politics and governance, is their cause célèbre that allows them to emerge and voice their resentments even if he and they can’t clearly articulate them. When the camera is turned to what is clear instances of brutality, unaccountability, and flat out murder by police of ordinary citizens of all racial backgrounds but especially blacks, the response is that it was somehow instigated by some combination of Antifa and Black Lives Matter. And this is the common thread; it is always some minority group that is the culpable actor instead of deeply entrenched institutional abuse and lack of accountability.

As for Donald Trump himself, I think his anger comes from a very different and personal place. The neglect of his father, social rejection from people he views as business peers, his manifest and successive failures as a businessman and investor, and just the general lack of actually being good at anything have made him a bitter, entitled narcissist who deep in his core probably realizes that he hasn’t actually earned anything he’s gotten in life and hears even the faintest criticism as an echo of his own lack of self-respect. His insistence on complete loyalty from subordinates, his fawning over autocrats in the hopes that they will treat him with the respect he cannot get from actual leaders, his obsessive need to put his name in gold letters on every flat surface he can find, and that clownish comb-over all speak to a endless well of insecurity that no amount of trophy wives, beauty pageants, and other superficial prizes that end up being giant money pits can fill. Trump is fundamentally angry because he’s a complete clown, and the people who show up to his rallies to fête him are the exact opposite of who he really wants to love and adore him.

Stranger

@Stranger. Truly excellent throughout.

The item below is about a different kind of loser, but you can see the similarity in the punchline. Trump’s biggest problem is that he’s stuck being Trump. The rest is just act-out as compensation.

Don’t they point at affirmative action?

A great quote (which I can’t ID the source of at the moment–I believe it was a political science professor):

Part of being an American is believing that you deserve more than you already have.

For much of American history, the people in charge put their names on the land, property, and labor of non-white people and declared them “our” property. Because, whiteness. And because, Jesus (who wouldn’t have been considered a full-fledged white person for most of American history).

Point at it, and make shit up.

Growing up an immigrant’s kid in a small town in West Virginia, I was always amused by stories that immigrants didn’t have to pay taxes.

I wish I had a nickel for every lazy good old boy who would have been a brain surgeon if not for affirmative action.