Or capable of faking. Prostitutes of both sections manage to sexually interact with people of both sexes they’re unattracted to. If a male prostitute has sex with a 70 year old man it doesn’t mean he’s attracted to old men, just that he’s capable of a physical relationship with one, just as there are many men who have had sex with women but who consider themselves gay rather than bisexual or straight.
I can vouch for that having lost my virginity to a 43 year old woman who had my baby at the age of 44 this January 
That’s not for me. Anyway, with my luck, I’d get arrested for soliciting a cop.
That and hookers tend to be nasty(STD’s, etc).
I looked like I was 11 till I was about 18, when I lost my virginity. I’m pretty sure there was a correlation there…
Confession time: I’m not actually that fussed about being a virgin. It hasn’t happenned and it isn’t likely to, and that’s unfortunate but that’s life.
20, but it’s not like I’ve been a regular Do Ju-an since. That was seven years ago, and I have not had a “fruitful” relationship since. Chalk me up as another picky-shy-geeky type.
Generally speaking, the ones I am interested in are already in a relationship. And, to be honest, there are not many that I have been interested in. I tend to blame it on either being in a job where I don’t meet many women I can actually date (i.e. when I was a teacher) or being in programs where there are not a lot of women around, period (like a tech school or physical oceanography). Add to that the fact that I don’t go to bars often, and the fact that I’m just damn shy in new social settings anyway, and you can guess how many women I have dated recently. (oh yeah, the whole okcupid thing? nary a bite. I guess I’m just too picky about distance, and all that…)
I was 19. I’m now 21 and totally content with the way things went. Female btw.
That’s why I waited until I was on vacation in Amsterdam.
I was 17, she 15. I’ve had sexual intercourse with three other women since and non-intercourse sexual activity with one other. It’s pretty important to me in a relationship. I’m 19 now, BTW, and male.
ya, i am 15 and lost it last month… i feel so young
God I hope not! Can you imagine not getting anymore blowjobs after having sex the first time? Hell, I would probably still be a virgin now by choice if that was the rule, or even the norm.
Oh, and for those listing ages like 15-17, there is no reason for you to feel particularly young. That probably more the norm. This thread is specifically about people who took longer than normal, so 18 at least.
Hey, I pretty much went from “totally ignored” to “let’s fuck” all in one go. 19, male.
The only qualifier there is the girl I kissed, sincerely and with much enjoyment, at a Nov 5th bonfire at age 16. But there was no repeat of that. And strictly speaking it wasn’t even “let’s fuck” but a tacit agreement to finish what some groping in the dark had started. In an ideal world it would’ve been a cheerleader, but (a) we tend not to have 'em Brit-side and (b) if there were any, they would’ve given me the “totally ignored” treatment. At least, their nearest equivalents over here certainly did.
I’m reminded of A Gift From Earth (Niven) where the protagonist had funny eyes; when he was under stress, anyone who met his gaze immediately forgot he was there. This meant he didn’t get laid until he happened to bump up against someone in total darkness.
Well, sounds like I ought to tell my story. I did have an oral-only relationship with another girl before I lost my virginity, but she didn’t want to have sex because she knew my prom date and wanted me to save it for her. Turned out my prom date didn’t want any piece of me (particularly that piece) when prom night came around, and it was too late to do anything with the first girl because my lesbian best friend had already stolen her and started (gasp!) an exclusive relationship with her. Bastards.
Anyway, I was chatting on AIM on my cellphone while volunteering at a middle school’s summer program (there was nothing to do), and a name popped up on my buddy list of a girl I’d had a class with (our school was structured somewhat oddly, you could say) and chatted up a little a couple of semesters back but with whom I had stopped talking after a short time. Anyway, I saw her SN and thought, hey, why not see what’s up with her? The conversation went like this:
Me: Hey, what’s new?
Her: Joe won’t have sex with me.*
Me: I will.
Her: Awesome!
Me: How’s tomorrow?
So we met up the next day and I picked her up and drove her to the local (not ours) high school parking lot, condoms on hand, and we took some drugs and kind of chilled out and listened to music a little, and I used what little foreplay experience I had to get her in the mood–although my fingering attempt was a bit of a disaster as I seemed to hit the wrong hole–and then we were having sex. It was amazing, because she was a virgin too, and there was an experimental, discovering new things together sort of feel in the air. We finished, then we got out and walked around a little (after putting some clothes back on!), I smoked a cigarette, and we agreed (a) that it was a pretty fun experience and (b) we should do it again, immediately. So we did. Well, we were using black condoms and when I pulled out I saw white stuff on it, and I freaked out and said “The condom broke!” We both proceeded to freak out and have no idea what to do, and the next thing I knew we were across town at my friend’s house getting Plan B pills. She took the pills, and then I realized later that the white stuff was, well, from her, not me, and it obviously wasn’t that kind of white stuff. Oh well.
I had sex with her only three or four more times, and then she freaked out because I missed her birthday party or something and decided she would rather have sex with (purportedly) everyone else in school. I went to college. The end.
- Because he was suffering from ED, not because he didn’t want to.
Ah, to be young and romantic again… a beautiful sory, fetus.
It might be a cultural difference but I have never heard of “oral-only” relationships, unless you count the occasional anonymous blowjob as a relationship. Pick-up lines such as "Hey, wanna go home?"are not uncommon with (n?)either gender over here, anyway. I can also honestly say I’ve never gone on a “date” as such; they’re considered fairly corny. Come to think of it, it must be a cultural difference… it’s amazing that we aren’t flooded with STD’s, really.
Yeah, we were really a couple of characters, looking back on it. But what can I say? The parts fit, beautifully at that.