Alrighty, I’m going to try and explain this situation I found myself as fair and evenly as I can.
A friend and I went for a drive recently and we got out to have some lunch in a small town. When we got back in to the car, I opened the passenger side door and sat down. My friend, who got in to the car at about the same time I did, immediately yelled “Watch out! My glasses!”. Sure enough, I’d sat smack bang on his glasses, slightly bending part of the frame, but the bend was small enough to be easily re-adjusted.
“Lucky for you they didn’t break”, my friend said, somewhat annoyed. “You’d have been up for a new $600 pair of glasses”.
I apologised and didn’t think too much of it at the time… so on we drove and we arrived at our second destination. My friend proceeds to take off his glasses and, once again, place them on the passenger seat.
“Don’t forget this time”.
To which I said, yes, with a bit of sarcasm…
“You could of course just not leave them on the passenger seat, then there’s no risk of me sitting on them”.
My friend then replies with something along the lines of:
“I don’t break my patterns of behaviour just because they don’t suit somebody else” (yeah, he was clearly agitated at my suggestion).
Anyway, I let the issue drop at this stage but I was a bit annoyed about it for some time.
My question is… who is in the wrong here? Should I be so vigilent as to always spot a pair of glasses resting on a car seat? If I had sat on them and broken them, would my friend be at all responsible for leaving his classes in a place where it is common for people to rest their body weight?