I’m getting married at the end of May. I have no nervous stomach knots. No cold feet. Is something wrong with me?
I don’t think so… maybe you’re just marrying the right person!
When I got married, I never had a moment’s doubt that I was doing the right thing and marrying the right person. Now, more than three years later, I’m even more certain that marrying Mr. Amanita was the best decision of my life.
But we really should have eloped. 
You’re not nervous because you know you’re not marrying me.
That’s what I think too. But seeing other people getting so nervous and crazy about it makes me sometimes wonder if I’m not properly considering the repercussions.
Truth is I’m extremely confident in our relationship and soon-to-be-marriage, but wanted to hear some outside opinions.
I wasn’t nervous before either of my weddings. The first one was a horrible mistake and the second one was the best thing I ever did.
I don’t know if that helps you any! But, I wish you and your future the most happiness possible.
Nah, it means no one’s hassling you about your wedding and you’re confident. Being nervous as hell is not a good or desired state to be in. If you saw a lot of other people like that, maybe they hadn’t considered the repercussions until right before the wedding.
I’m not engaged yet, but hope to be soon. My SO and I have been together six months, have never had a fight (Well, we came close when I got lost once and he was being a backseat driver), and never disagree. Yet my best friend has had some major fights with his boyfriend and they’re always disagreeing - and they’ve been together the same amount of time as us. I’ve asked myself the same questions about whether or not I’m ‘normal’. I asked another friend, who said some couples just fight, and it’s perfectly normal NOT to fight. I think it’s normal NOT to be nervous, too. I don’t see why being nervous should be a requirement for getting married.
Ava
I’m sorry. I’ve been trying to resist doing this, but I just can’t do it any longer:
I’m gettin’ married in the mornin’
Ding dong! the bells are gonna chime…
Hail and salute me
Then haul off and boot me…
And get me to the church,
Get me to the church…
For Gawd’s sake, get me to the church on time!
Whew! Thank you.
Being relaxed and confident about your upcoming wedding is a terrific thing. Aside from all the work TheLadyLion did preparing decorations were were both very relaxed for our wedding last month. Mind you we’re a bit more mature than folks getting married for the first time but we both took all the steps to make sure it was the right thing.
I wasn’t nervous at all, either. Some people worry for no reason, some people don’t worry when they should.
Don’t worry about not worrying ! Just enjoy yourself
Nothing wrong with you at all.
I had no worries about the marriage side of things, other than wanting the days arrangements to go as planned.
They did. It was a great day.
Enjoy !
Think about it Talito. Why would you be nervous? Thousands of people get married very weekend - nothing to it! It can be a fabulous day so stay relaxed - soak it all up and enjoy it. Best of luck to you both
featherlou and I were engaged for more than a year before the big day, so everything was pretty much in place well in advance. There really wasn’t anything to worry about, aside from stage fright – I’m pretty shy, so the prospect of standing up in front of a crowd of friends and family was somewhat unsettling. But, no, no real nerves here, certainly none about whether we were making the right choice.
I wasn’t nervous until we were in the church waiting for the song to start, so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you.
Yet. 