I work at a dollar store. In front of my register is the mandatory gumball machine. This one has gumballs, bouncy balls, stickers, temporary tattoos…something for everyone. :rolleyes:
A large amount of children ask me, “Do you have any money?” “Can I have some quarters?” Some of them ask their parent(s) first, some of them go straight to me. The parents almost never say anything to them about this! (Half of them are too busy talking on their cell phones to pay attention to their children.)
After I say, “I’m sorry, honey, but I didn’t bring any money to work with me,” then the parents might tell them not to ask me for money, but it is always after I answer. (Maybe it’s happening in the car? Please tell me it’s happening in the car…) Worse, some of the parents look at me as if I am expected to dole out money to their children.
The little ones I don’t mind. I can understand it. They have just watched the people in front of them give me money. Their parent is going to give me money. They probably think the money is mine, and if I collect enough money, maybe I have some to spare. The older ones, I don’t understand. I’ve had kids as old as maybe 11-12 years old ask this.
My mother was a fairly strict one; “there are rules about how you act in public, and how you act is a reflection on me.” I shudder to imagine how she would have reacted to me asking a stranger for money. :eek:
A grandmother once reacted much the way my mother would have. Often, the customer behind them will ask me, shocked, if “that child” just asked me for money. I’ve been working it into the conversation, asking them if they have children, and they always respond, yes, but mine are grown.
Is this a new “thing?” Is it now the norm for kids to ask strangers for money? Younger parents, is this ok?
How would your parents have reacted to this? How would you react if your children did this? (If you don’t mind stating an age, or age range for that matter, that would help.)
:mad: And… Get off my lawn!!