Here is an interesting article about Asian men.
http://www.isteve.com/IsLoveColorblind.htm
It sort of makes sense. I have to say that the girls that went out with me in didn’t go out with me cuz I am good looking, rather they went out with me because I have a certain “talent” if ya catch my drift. Har har har.
I read through the first half of the article, i will absolutely finish it, it is fascinating.
After all these people posted here, saying “I think Asian men are sexy!”, I was starting to think that I just imagined this whole thing.
Yes, it is a bit sickening, but I was thinking…
Will a trend come about at some point where Asian men will start being portrayed as incredibly hot?
If so, will this be a good thing? I imagine that a lot of Asian men will think it’s a good thing heh heh heh…but that goes back to another point i only touched upon-
I’m not sure it’s fair that the media has made Asian women as incredibly sexy. I don’t think it’s right to be attracted to a person merely because of their race. To have a fetish for a certain race implies that the fetishist is only seeing something very supericial, instead of the whole person.
Or maybe I take things too seriously.
Anyway, I am going to read more of that article.
Thanks.
That article had too many numbers, it made my head hurt. That being said, I will read it when I’m actually rested…
On to other things, is it so bad to be attracted to somebody exclusively because of their race? I mean, isn’t this just another form of being attracted to somebody because of their looks? After all, if I find somebody attractive, I find that person attractive because of the way they look, and 99% of the time it’s an Asian female. Is that simply because they’re Asian - yeah, pretty much. Is that bad? No.
Let’s put it this way, 95% of all attraction pertinent to this discussion is superficial. What we’re talking about here isn’t “I want to know that person” attraction, it’s “I find that person attractive” attraction, which is pretty much purely physical. That being said, being attracted to a girl because she’s Asian, or any other fetishized nationality, is no more superficial, or inherently wrong, than being attracted to a girl because she has big bosoms (I don’t care if it’s wrong, I like that word). It’s just a matter of liking what you like, and why you like that thing doesn’t really matter.
Sure basing a relationship - which is to say one that has affection in addition to attractin - purely on race would be heinously wrong, but unlikely. I’d like to think - though I could very well be wrong - that a budding relationship, which is the only time when knowing the other person actually matters would not be based purely on physical attraction/fetishization. OTOH, there are trophy wives (and probably husbands) and other similar perversities (to the idea that marriage, etc. should be based on love), so what do I know?
That being said, I hope the “Asian men are incredibly sexy” campaign kicks off soon. After all, I’m a really nice guy once you get to know me, but if all you want is raunchy uninhibited sex, I can live with that too… 