Your user name was familiar, so I checked and bingo, you’re indeed the one who gave us this gem a few months ago :
Mixed gender rooms in the armed forces, post #6.
You’re not going to listen because you obviously enjoy wallowing in self-pity but it’s painfully obvious that your fossilized notions of “man”, “woman”, "doing everything right"and “deserving” are the problem. You are wrong. And as long as you think like this, your childish whining won’t deserve consideration. Full stop.