Whew - what a day. Mostly in a good way - busy busy and all that.
I spoke to my mom when I got home - she’s a zinger. As of this afternoon, she’s completely purged Monica’s room of everything but the furniture. Good clothes went to St. Vincent de Paul, OK stuff went to Goodwill, trash went to trash. Curtains came down, bedding was stripped, washed, and donated, everything was dusted and vacuumed, except for moving the big furniture.
It’s not that my mom is cold-hearted or anything. But I just know she’s been itching to give that room a good cleaning for years. Monica wasn’t a tidy person and Mom tried to allow her to have her space the way she wanted. So there were drawers full of what to anyone but Monica would be trash. She wore the same 3 or 4 outfits over and over, and she had piles of clothes that still had tags on them. My mother is a clean freak, and she had to do this, plain and simple. When my dad died, her first step in the grieving process was purging his closet and dresser… I guess we all deal in our own way.
Anyway, we’re going to drive up early on Friday, and we’ll come home after lunch - Mom’s already made reservations at a place around the corner from the cemetery. I don’t know about other folks, but in our family, funerals are followed by meals in nice restaurants. That way, no one has to do dishes.
And speaking of TMI, I’ve got a big pile of it in the cubicle next to mine. While it wasn’t directly addressed to me, I overheard the occupant discussing his and his wife’s appointment with a fertility specialist, his need to be there, and his hope that they’d have good magazines… :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: He repeated the same story to **FCD **when requesting the day off, and needless to say, my sweetie didn’t want to know all those details… :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Thankfully, when he came back to work, there was no comment about the magazines or anything else to do with the appointment. I do know that the guy to whom the comments were directed said he figured out what was going on almost immediately and he didn’t want to know all the extra details… So it wasn’t just me. I guess some people just can’t keep personal information private. ick.
Supper was sloppy joes -they’ve been in the freezer for a few months, so the flavors blended nicely. I’s stuffded, but I still want a donut.
Time to knit…