Wait, what? Since when is it not permitted to mention other message boards? Boards are linked here all the time. I just wasted two hours of my life because someone posted a link to a site listing pointless websites!
What’s not allowed is linking to a message board to start a board war. It’s not allowed to post “Oh, my god, those idiots over at iamanidiot.net are talking about creationism! Won’t someone go tear those jerks a new one?” Why? Because someONE won’t do it, some 90 pissed off Dopers tromp over there, create a scene, and then iamanidiot.net sends people here to shut us up, and it’s a whole big sticky mess (and not in a good way.)
Nic2004, those “special, not to be mentioned by name” anti-Dope boards are a unique situation. They’re essentially troll pits aimed directly at The Straight Dope Message Boards. Some people, some current Dopers, lots of banned former Dopers, some people who just like to stir shit up, post (mostly, but not entirely) anonymous shit about Dopers. There’s a lot of “Oh, here Nic2004 goes again, being a poo-poo head. He thinks he’s so great, and fat ass WhyNot’s such a know it all biotch!” (example made up…until someone steals it.) It’s sad, really. But it can cause a lot of hurt feelings, obviously, and it’s just best not to encourage active Dopers to feed the trolls over there. It’d be really hard, I expect, to go over there and see yourself getting flamed, and then not knowing (or knowing) that someone who said horrid things about you over there is being your bestest cyber-friend over here. It’s bound to devolve into name calling and paranoia. Best to leave that stuff there, IMHO. They’re not exactly secret, though. Google will lead you to them, if you really want to check them out. (I did check out two last week, because my curiousity got the better of me. My biggest problem with them was the simply gawdawful format and design of the pages. I couldn’t even follow a good snark without a dozen clicks and backpages!)
While I think that generally, people should be responsible for their own clicks, it’s understandable why the Powers That Be don’t want the snark boards linked to, or even mentioned by name. Occasionally, despite our masthead, ignorance is bliss.