Since you have all been so forthcoming, I guess a little disclosure on my part would not be inappropriate.
I do not believe in the supernatural, and firmly believe there is no omnipotent being. I guess I could agree with a statement that nature’s laws = god, but why call them by another name? And I consider statements like “God is love” to be pretty meaningless. If the human capacity for good will, love, etc. + god, then why trick it up with stories about burning bushes, nirvana, etc.
Seems clear to me that any particular manifestation of God is a manmade construction. The bible/koran/etc. were written by men, and have been interpreted by men.
Some people believe they have experienced something they believe is God. Why do they believe it is any particular manifestation? To a nonbeliever, the Christian story is no more farfetched than little green men doing mind control experiments. There certainly is smorgasboard of religious choices to choose from. I see no reason anyone can argue any one is more valid that any other. (And yes, matt, I think it is a common mistake for people to present belief as fact). If someone says they experienced God, how do you know, for example, it was Jesus? Perhaps it was the Buddha, and they misidentified him through their cultural baggage.
I must say I have a couple of problems with the christian God.
Original sin. Sorry, but there is not much less “sinful” than my babies when born. Now after they learned to walk and talk is another matter!
I find much of christian ideology devalues our current life. Unless we want to go down the “is anything real” path, many of us agree that there is good reason to believe this existence, in fact, exists. Certainly more proof than some afterlife. Friend of God suggests “Give up control of my life…” “No such thing as a good person.” “Mankind has no hope in and of himself to improve himself.” Runs counter to my experience and sounds pretty depressing and defeatist to me. Whatever his defects, I see man as a pretty nifty creature and see no reason to adopt a mindset that devalues the inherent ability of man. Strikes me as adopting a pre-emptive excuse for being bad, or failing.
The way I see it, the old testament God is quite a stretch. But piling the whole Jesus story on top of it, unless it is considered entirely allegorical, seems to pile absurdity upon absurdity. Help me with the logic, are two absurdities no more farfetched than one? If I wish to believe in something that is “unknowable,” wouldn’t I want to make it a simple as possible? And don’t come back with “Jesus is love.” Nope. Every christian church preaches a lot more than that.
If you decide to be a Christian, there is still a selection to make. Do you believe in determinism? Why would anyone care about transubstantiation, let alone presume that they could say there is a right or wrong view of it? And on and on. Wars have been fought over these things. Can we say they don’t matter today? If not, what does matter?
To a non-believer it is striking how many people attend a particular denomination, but know little about what that church actually stands for. Depending on what you believe, you might not be able to be a Methodist, or a Lutheran. And this isn’t even mentioning political stances.
And it is very hard to take seriously folk who go to church x “because their parents did.” Don’t you make up your own mind at some time. And isn’t it important enough of a decision to not simply be made out of convenience and inertia? I think one’s personal religious belief is an important enough issue that it requires considerable thought. It is not surprising that the majority of posters on this board have undertaken that examination. I fear the same cannot be said about all churchgoers.
Once you determine your beliefs, if you wish to join a religious community I believe it behooves you to choose a denomination that best fits them. Sure, you will never find a perfect match. Same way you will never find a politician that perfectly matches your views. But you certainly don’t have the option of just picking and choosing which tenets you agree with and which you don’t. Hey, I have to respect the heck out of the Pope. “These are the rules. If you don’t like them, find another game.”
Finally, you can join a church for valid reasons different than, but hopefully consistent with, the reasons you have or lack faith. There is a lot to be said about the community building role of church. It also teaches children (and adults) spirituality, morals. I enjoy the fact that my church tries to equip each person to conduct their own spiritual search, and that that search need not be dependent upon the existence or any particular manifestation of God. Many christian churches strike me as somewhat insecure. So while Daoism may appeal to me, I am unaware of a community in my immediate area that will provide the support and stimulation I get at the UU church I attend. I also get a kick that my kids are getting education of many other religions. Some christian churches strike me as somewhat defensive and insecure.
Last point. Sorry if I am simply too dense to understand what has been said here and in other threads, but what happens to the virtuous Hindi. I assume a Catholic believes there is no reincarnation. And I’m not talking about someone who is ignorant of Christ - this hindi has heard the story, but decides it isn’t for him. So he leads a perfectly virtuous life, except he denies the deity of Christ. What happens to him? If your God doesn’t let him into the club, you’ll have a hard time convincing me that he’s infallible.
Final final point, I don’t see why a god has to be infallible. And based on my experience, a fallible god would be a lot easier to believe in that the alternative.
Sorry this was so long and convoluted. Thank you all for your responses to my OP.