I should probably clarify that, because what I posted was a bit misleading.
She told me that I should feel no obligation to have sex with her no matter how much she wants it. I responded that neither of us was under any obligation. No one should ever have that as an obligation, right? So right there we removed that weirdness. We didn’t remove the possibility, we just gave ourselves permission to say no. After that, the flirts got much more serious and promising.
The emotional stuff we didn’t really talk about, actually. Nor did we talk about what will happen after that day. It’s hard to plan that far in advance when we haven’t even had our first date. But I’m thinking about it, and I’m pretty sure she is too.
The rest of your post was spot on. That’s exactly the plan. For now, I’m just savoring the anticipation.
I haven’t seen my virginity since I was 13, actually. Or 21. It depends on how you define virginity, I guess. (Didn’t we have a thread about that? Or several?) Never been married. I’m fresh (well, since February) out of a LTR that started less than two weeks after I last saw the lovely girl in question.
