Just got done reading the “oral sex tips” thread and it brought to mind my earliest sexual experiences with my wife.
To this day we both chuckle when we think about it… Neither of us were very experienced when we met (1 guy for her, 1 gal for me) and true to form, we employed the “trial and error” technique when it came to physical fulfillment.
Making love was no problem (everything fit where it was supposed to!), but it was fumbles time when it came to foreplay. Patience on her part was wonderful… she instructed me on what she liked and where she liked it, etc. But I’m notoriously quiet in bed and at times she said she didn’t know if I was enjoying myself or not (please bear in mind that I was as hard as a rock at all times… remember, I said it was new to us!)
Which brings me to my point. There were numerous times when she was pleasing me 
that I would pull away and start kissing her or steer her attention to other areas. I found out later that she thought she was doing it WRONG! And that I was stopping her because it wasn’t pleasing me. We had the biggest laugh after I told her I was pulling away because she was doing it so RIGHT! She chuckled that she didn’t know what she would have done if I hadn’t pulled away… she had no idea that I was so excited!
Well that was 18 years and 3 children ago. We both sag in places that used to be firm and she still says that she loves me (even with my Buddha belly). Oh and by the way, we’ve since found out what she does when I don’t pull away… she giggles! 