Will some viewpoints be eventually banned, regardless of how polite/civil?

Personally, I think it would be dehumanizing. However, I think you could still debate it, if you framed it properly – “my church is opposed to same-sex marriage, and I agree with their teaching. However, I’m willing to entertain arguments to the contrary – here’s why I think my church should stay opposed…” I don’t think it would be constructive to argue that it should stay illegal in the US, which is ostensibly a secular country, but you could make sincere, non-dehumanizing arguments about church teaching.

It’s going to be an inherently touchy subject because there are many LGBTQ people on this board who are personally affected by this kind of bigotry, so you’d have to tread lightly in a way that you wouldn’t if you wanted to argue for Trump’s reelection or supply side economics.

So far, no mods or admins have spoken up. Would any be interested in coming to clarify/join the discussion?

I think that there are certain points of view that are vile and can only really be presented in the pit, no matter how polite the language used to present those arguments.

I’m sure that someone could point to their church being opposed to inter-racial couples. The only way to reasonably debate that position is to call out its inherent bigotry and I think the only place we’re allowed to do that is in the pit. I think that opposition to gay marriage is similarly based in bigotry. Members of NAMBLA claim that adult-child sexual relationships can be positive for the child, how are we supposed to debate that position anywhere other than the pit?

By using our judgment. The perfect is not the enemy of the good.

Any such discussion will inevitably alienate some board members. But nobody is suggesting that we should adopt some lowest-common-denominator of offense, that if one or a few people say that something upsets them, we automatically ban the topic. With topics of debate such as this this one, that are inherently dehumanizing to a class of people, it will always be a judgment call about whether we should choose to host the debate. Does the benefit of exposing bad ideas to scrutiny and challenge outweigh the social cost to our community of hosting such debates at all?

Imo SSM is right on the cusp, for me it personally would be a difficult judgment call, since I’ve never heard any argument against SSM that is distinguishable from more general homophobic bigotry, so I’m not sure anyone would learn much from debating it. Still, for this board’s moderation, I’m pretty sure they would lean toward allowing it.

If your concern is a slippery-slope argument that issues that you might want to debate could soon be considered beyond the pale within a civilized community, perhaps that should be motivation to examine whether those ideas are on the right site of ethical progress in our society’s values.

Riemann, I agree with you that SSM is right on the cusp. It seems to be a topic where people can actually be swayed, though – someone on this very board had a complete change of heart on the subject. However, with the passage of time, those still opposed will be increasingly dug in and arguing against SSM will be similar to arguing against the legality mixed-race or mixed-religion marriages.

Isn’t it more factual that there are more than two sexes (ie. intersex people), but that gender is a social construct so it could be reasonable to argue that there are only two genders? I’d say it would be a difficult argument, like trying to argue that there are only two races, but on the face of it is unclear to me how it is denying the right to exist, anymore than someone arguing that there is no such thing as “straight” or “gay” and that everyone is pansexual, and if you disagree you are just in denial.

Regarding “scientific racism” - it seems to me to be one of those topics where theoretically good discussion could occur, but rarely does. I don’t believe that there is any currently any evidence that intelligence (which is itself a very nebulous concept) is correlated with race. Undoubtedly that is because there are probably hundreds of not thousands of genetic and environmental factors that contribute to someone’s intelligence. Yet, it is pretty uncontroversial that distribution of genes between (though also within) racial groups is uneven, and there are populations where some sort of genes are more prevalent than others. I feel like we should be open to discussing these differences without inferring that it results in some sort of judgement for or against people of a particular race. Looking at someone’s skin colour won’t let you know whether someone has sickle-cell anemia, how tall they will be when they grow up, or whether they will be lactose intolerant, so nor would it let you know whether someone is genetically gifted in intelligence. Yet it is recognized that genetic factors influence all of these, and genes are unevenly distributed among the population.

It seems plausible to me that genetic factors could be a factor in explaining racial differences in test scores, in the same way that carbon dioxide emissions are a factor in climate change (note I am not saying that genetic factors ARE a factor, just that they could be, and that it is likely that the science is not at a level where we can discern this). Dismissing this possibility because there is currently no evidence for it seems similar to dismissing the possibility that CO2 emissions could lead to global warming 50 years ago because there was no evidence of that.

Delayed Reflex, I think there’s so way to reply to your post without arguing the issues, which is not what ATMB is for, so I’ll just say that I disagree with your points on gender and race. If you want to start up a thread in GD on either issue, you’d probably get a better response.

It’s not dehumanizing, it’s an unequal application of law for no good reason. And we’ve asked for good reasons quite a few times on this board and the Dopers who argue against same-sex marriage have never provided one. Not one.

The answers they sometimes tried to give to rationalize their opinions were dehumanizing though, i.e. if there isn’t even the possibility of reproduction, your marriage shouldn’t “count”, as if reproduction was all that mattered, like animals on a breeding cycle.

Wrong-o. Women’s rights and equality were arguably making more progress in the 18th century than they did in much of the 19th, and some 18th-century US state constitutions did allow women to vote.

Even in the 19th century, the notion of women’s suffrage was never considered so ridiculously beyond the pale as to be unworthy of serious discussion, except perhaps in entrenched male-only bastions of sexism. How do you think women’s suffrage would ever have happened if it weren’t for women (and some men) making serious arguments for it, and getting those arguments taken seriously, for decades and centuries before it happened?

The two aren’t mutually exclusive. It is quite possible, and indeed very common, for people to sincerely reject and disavow explicitly racist beliefs while not recognizing the ways in which other actions and beliefs are implicitly racist.

In other words, a lot of people are constantly and thoughtlessly blowing dogwhistles that they don’t even know they’re holding. If, for example, you hold the conscious opinion that people ought not to discriminate on the basis of race, but you reflexively think that a black jogger in your neighborhood looks “suspicious” while you wouldn’t even notice a white jogger, then you may be unconsciously engaging in the very discrimination you claim to be opposed to.

And that’s an occupational hazard of living in a historically and persistently racist society, where white people have the privilege of not even noticing the existence of racism most of the time. That’s not in itself an automatic indicator of bad faith. It’s when people refuse to check themselves for overlooked dogwhistles, and stubbornly insist that if they don’t deliberately endorse racist views that they can’t possibly be engaging in racism, that it becomes reasonable to question their bona fides and/or intelligence.

Right! Part of the problem is determining what IS offensive. I mean, to use the example above, you’ll get a VERY different answer if you asked the SDMB user base the question of whether saying there are only 2 genders is offensive or not, versus asking a representative segment society at large. Do we want to ban people or warn them if they don’t conform to our specific version of groupthink?

Well all sorts of things are possible. What’s relevant here is whether you can insist that not only is it possible that your debate opponent has some belief that he’s expressly denying but that he definitely does, and further, that you demand action based on the assumption that he does.

Conversely, thinking someone might possibly have other beliefs which underlay the positions they’re expressing is not an automatic indicator of bad faith. It’s when people refuse to accept the possibility that their opponents might simply mean exactly what they’re saying, no more and no less, that it becomes reasonable to question their bona fides and/or intelligence. Especially if - as is so frequently the case - this attribution of beliefs very much serves the interests of the ones doing the attributing.

I think the kiddies these days are calling it being “racial realist” or some such nonsense (based upon, of course, FACTS and LOGIC, capital letters mandatory).

Well, ISTM the greater social culture itself itself changes what is “being a jerk”, including certain viewpoints and their expression. Sometimes that is not uniform across different segments of society, but it does happen. And hey, I myself have often been less than pleased at how some thought or expression that was perfectly fine for me for the first half of my adult life now puts me in less than good standing. It is no injustice against me, just things changed.

One tricky part of it sometimes is about whether the threshold for crossing the line is going to be based on substance or form.

Or in the alternate, they don’t return to that thread, only to surface in another one (or start another new one) some time later with their usual pet projection.

OTOH, in such a case if their recurring theme is deemed just not compatible with this venue, and they insist on it, after repeated notes and warnings to cut it out, they can be banished. It becomes a question of having a do you stop now or do we stop you later choice; or establishing that there will be no “later”.

Right. OTOH, at the same time, we need to be careful about how do we measure the threshold and establish the precedent for when “deplatforming” is or is not in order, and what is the risk of rendering ourselves “bubbled”.

I suppose at some point there should emerge refined terminology to distinguish between the “sincere” provocateur, the mere arbitrary chaotic shitflinger, and the person who “is not really a good fit for here”.

What they said – we exercise judgment based on values rather than create an “Index” that could just be an incentive to find imaginative ways to work around it. And generally speaking around here, in Justice Stewart’s words, “we know it when we see it”.

Yes, I believe we should agree that there is a difference between making you feel unease (part of life) and wounding your human dignity (not cool), yet there would be an argument whether to take the offended party’s say-so on that or if anyone who does not share their experience is fit to judge.

I would not even value-qualify as “the right side of progress”, I’d class it as I mentioned before, as being part of the evolution of the society’s culture. It happens in everyday life, it can happen here. Now, sure, if we want to be ahead of the curve we risk calling it wrong, and if we wait for the direction to be clear we will get castigated for taking too long until it was safe to get with the program, but again that’s how things are in general, isn’t it?

:dubious: This seems to imply that you’ve somehow discovered a mysteriously purified form of linguistic communication, in which the statements expressed by the communicator carry absolutely no meaning outside of what the communicator consciously and explicitly intended them to carry.

But real-life communication doesn’t work that way. If you refuse to acknowledge that your statements and ideas naturally and inevitably can have implications that you didn’t deliberately mean them to have, that in itself suggests a bad-faith approach to communication.

umm, guys, the rules of GD already exclude certain topics, since January of this year, so why is this thread going on so long?

I did try to start a thread in GD, but should have realized that scientific racism is a banned topic, so Jonathan Chance has closed the thread. I agree with you that ATMB is not the right venue to be discussing this though so we can just drop the subject. While I understand you personally don’t think discussion on scientific racism should be banned, it seems like the moderators don’t want to take the chance of the discussion taking an ugly turn so I respect that.

Sorry about that! I didn’t mean to lead you into a trap or anything, of course. I didn’t realize the rules had changed.

OP, are there other hypothetical discussions we should discuss here, since many of your examples are already banned?

I think it’s perfectly legit to discuss in ATMB as to whether those topics ***should ***be banned (I am all aboard with banning 9/11 Trutherism, Holocaust denial, etc. but I think there are legit men’s rights issues to be discussed.) That would be for another thread.
As mentioned already abovethread, I think LGBT would be one of the likeliest candidates to appear on the next-to-be-banned list (not banning the whole topic, but rather, banning any or certain anti-LGBT viewpoints.) We’ve already had multiple posters claiming that certain anti-LGBT views amount to “denial of their humanity or right to exist.” It’s not that far a leap to imagine such views subsequently being censored in the future as “being a jerk.”

ISTM that both you and the OP are somewhat overstating the scope of the current or potential restrictions here:

Is declaring certain topics off-limits in GD and P&E without moderator pre-approval really the same as “banning” all discussion of those topics, much less “banning certain viewpoints” about them? That seems to me a somewhat melodramatic interpretation of the forum rules.

AFAICT you can still discuss all those subjects to your heart’s content in, e.g., IMHO or the Pit. GD and P&E have certain rules of discourse, just as GQ has the even more stringent rules about only seeking and supplying factual information. I don’t see anything particularly oppressive about saying that advocating for sexist, racist, etc. bigotry does not meet the standards of discourse for debate in GD and P&E.

Since that “three racist peas in a pod” thread I’ve been thinking about researching the subject just to see if we could have a civil debate. I think I could probably make some sort of argument about relaxing some sort of law. I remember just a couple years ago that I was a teenager and I thought it was stupid to make an some kid register as a sex offender because she was caught having sex with her boyfriend. And who in their right mind charges a kid with distribution of child pornography if the picture is of themselves? Sexting was common when I was in school, I’m sure it’s even more common now. I’m sure there’s stupid laws about child molestation that I could argue against.

Perhaps in my better judgement, I repeatedly decide this isn’t a debate worth having because it will make people too angry. You have told me in no uncertain terms that you consider anyone who presents such a view to be arguing in bad faith. I don’t want to be called a troll, but I do have opinions. You would get mad at me and probably call me a troll, nobody would want to debate me in good faith, and so all I take away is the research I did for the pro-molestation side. Why would I want that?

So instead I haven’t researched anything about child molestation and carry on as I was before.

This isn’t the only topic I have backed down from, either. As recently as today, I was weighing whether to create a debate thread concerning whether using the n-word as an insult is always hate speech. I don’t think it is. I would have participated in such a debate with the intention of changing my mind. But, you know, I don’t want to bring that down on myself. I’ll just get virtually yelled at. I don’t actually use that word, not in real life and not in my inner monologues. No skin in the game. I already regret expressing what I have in ATMB. On the other hand, Riemann telling me I’m objectively wrong doesn’t change my mind one iota.

So instead, I haven’t researched anything about hate speech or the n-word, I haven’t had my arguments fleshed out and criticized, and I carry on as I was before.

There was some furor a few months ago about misogyny. nate or someone had made a thread about how he was so distracted by female streetwalkers that he had trouble focusing on the road, but the furor was over him saying he would think, “I’d f— that”. I knew a little about feminism but it was truly perplexing to see posters I was coming to respect come down on the use of a single word like that and saying this is what’s wrong with the boards. I decided this is something I simply must understand, and decided to ask. I probably gave Broomstick and others a huge headache, I probably came across as a troll, but I came out with my own understanding, possibly the wrong one, but better than blind acceptance.

I came out of that debate feeling like I was unworthy to have an opinion about how women feel on the issue of sexual objectification. Like, if the issue of misogyny on these boards were put to a vote, I had best abstain since apparently I don’t have a clue. The onus is on me to make an effort to research the topic first. So I did some further research into sexual objectification. I made a thread to discuss, which you may remember. Not a single woman replied, and I think I ended up agreeing with octopus and Shodan before the thread died out. Not… the debate I was looking for, although I value their contributions.

There was a thread about the Trump impeachment. You may remember that I picked my hill and died on it. I learned a lot by researching my position and reading replies, probably more about constitutional law than I ever learned in school. I also got this strong vibe of, “get out of our thread” from some which sucks the fun out of it and makes me think twice before posting in political threads.

Then there was that thread, similar to this one, “Discourse on the Dope” or something like that. I had an unpopular opinion, or rather, I failed to understand the rationale behind the popular opinions. Several people who I respect quit the debate, some twice, try as I may to stay civil and keep an open mind. I hate the feeling I got then, it’s the most undesirable outcome of a debate when the other side just says this isn’t worth it any more and walks away. I was stressing them out by having my opinion and not understanding theirs. I don’t like stressing people out. Even worse, they had skin in the game, and I don’t. Who am I to try and make sense of someone else’s cause celebre? By probing, am I doing more harm than good? Every day I considered whether it is in the spirit of this board to just stand down. That stresses me out. Conveniently vacation time came around and forced me to retire anyways.

I suppose this is only tangentially related to whether certain viewpoints will be de jure banned, but I occasionally ask myself whether I am de facto banning myself from expressing certain opinions out of politeness. More importantly, I ask myself whether that is a good thing in the long run.

~Max

How often are you willing to refute it? Daily? Multiple times per day?

There’s a limit to how often we can reasonably be asked to re-invent the goddamned wheel.

ETA: IMHO*
*haha. j/k. The assertions I post are never mere OPINIONS