A recurrent theme in soft-porn literature seems to be a woman who controls her parner’s orgasm-that is, she dictates to her lover that he/she cannot orgasm until told to do so 9they don’t say how this is accomplished).
Anyway, do most woman like this power (if they have it)?
Is it something about control and power that gives such people a rush?
Unless you’re reading erotica written specifically for women, chances are you’re just reading the femme-domme fantasies of men. What female oriented erotica I have read hasn’t had that as a common theme.