You indirectly referred to yourself as young in the young people/gambling thread, so it hardly seems like a deep secret – I’d guess twentysomething myself.
It took me all of about 2 seconds to find an online dating profile of yours with all kinds of info - including your age (not as young as people think) and pics.
I don’t think you’re as good at keeping your private life private as you think you are.
Maybe word got around that you’ve got a two-inch clit and you know how to use it?
In this post of two years ago, she said she was 28.
Your posts on this board have contained information about odd behaviors and thought processes that you have. You don’t like being touched even by your parents, you don’t understand why blaring horns through neighborhoods at 3 a.m. would be considered rude, you don’t understand that parking the wrong way might confuse other drivers, you consistently ask questions about other people’s behaviors that indicate you struggle with understanding relatively normal human interaction.
It could very well be that you come across to others as odd or difficult, and that the SOs of people you know aren’t interested in dealing with it.
Thirty. Huh. I woudn’t a thunk that one.
Considering how many of your threads are about how to attract the ladies, maybe you’re coming off as desperately seeking someone in real life? Not that they necessarily think you’ll be underhanded enough to hit on their girlfriends, but that it makes people uncomfortable. Lots of straight people come off that way too, and I doubt they get introduced to friends’ SOs very often either.
Yeah, that. Especially if you really do have untreated OCD. Very few people are all that interested in exposing their SO to someone who’s weird or off-putting or difficult. And far fewer people are interested in being around a friend of someone else’s who is weird or difficult or off-putting. Would you want to hang out with someone like that?
I’m confident that I don’t come across as difficult, or even that odd. I have a really good social life, if I were that unlikable I would assume I would have very few friends. And, Im good at hiding my OCD symptoms. Actually this a huge source of conflict between me and my folks. They’ve watched me interact with my friends and me coming across as relatively normal…but I go kind of crazy when I’m around them. I call it letting my walls come down, around people who I should judge the least. They call it “not caring”.
Umm…I’m not sure how desperate I’m coming across. I love women. Eat, sleep, and breathe them. I am a little flirtatious. But I’m like that with most women, I don’t single any women out and grope them, or anything.
My age…I’m the third oldest out of all my friends, so they are indeed in their twenties (and don’t like to gamble) 
My online dating profile being stalked…uhh thanks for telling me.
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You certainly don’t come across as very self-aware, either.
I obviously have no way of knowing how you come across in real life, but on this board, you absolutely come across as both of those things. Maybe not to everyone, but at least to me, and others have commented on it as well.
It’s not stalking if you freely put your business out there and make it easy to find out things about you. A simple Google search is hardly stalker territory.
Are the walls up or down when you post here? If they’re up, I have to say you don’t hide the crazy nearly so well as you like to think. Mind you, I’m not saying this to be mean; we all have things about ourselves that we’re just too close to see clearly, and it’s up to our friends to point them out to us.
As for your parents, how come they don’t get the same consideration and effort your friends get re : controlling the OCD? Yeah, I know, they shouldn’t care how weird you act…but neither should people who are really your friends. What it comes across to other people as is that you care enough about what those people think /how your OCD affects them to put forth the effort to control it around them, and by corollary you don’t care enough about what hour family thinks or how your OCD affects them to put forth that same effort.
And lay off the flirting with every woman you see. Nobody will want to introduce their SO to somebody who’s gonna flirt right there in front of them. And most people in a relationship don’t much care food being flirted with, especially right in front of their SO. And before you start a thread asking us to explain such weird behavior, it’s not weird. It’s normal to want someone to respect the commonly understood boundaries of a relationship.
This. This. This. Clearly I’ve no idea whether you come across as socially odd because I’ve never met you, but flirting with every woman you meet is not going to endear you to their girlfriends.
You know how every so often on this board there will be a debate about how straight people’s partners feel about them being friends with members of the opposite sex? It’s because some people fear that that friendship may cross the line. Now, being gay, it’s unavoidable having friends of your preferred gender - most of my friends are women, mostly lesbians in fact. I could not sustain these relationships if I was flirting with them the whole time - it’s an inappropriate thing for friends to do and sends out all the wrong messages. A friend of yours, who knows you well, might be able to brush off your flirting as innocent banter, but they aren’t going to appreciate you flirting with their SOs. You need to rein that in.
Search me. I always heard that Diamonds are a girl’s best friend.
Almost a year later, I seem to be having the opposite problem. I’m meeting friendly lesbians. Some of them too friendly, yet their girlfriends are always around. They notice the friendliness and get upset. It’s awkward.
Example, last weekend, a cute girl approaches me at a bar. She chatted with me and I chatted with her back. She was pretty touchy. The whole time, I was grinning and tossing my hair. She made me nervous, in a good way. I was checking her out, and didn’t try to hide it. She then invites me out to the patio to play some darts. At the patio was her girlfriend. She didn’t seem pleased to see me at all. This girl continued to chat with me and be touchy. Her girlfriend got increasingly annoyed.
WTF? It’s like certain girls use me to make their girlfriend jealous. Am I reading this behavior right? I have never encountered this sort of thing in the straight world. Is this common in straight circles?
I have no desire to wreck a healthy relationship. But, in the cases it’s obvious that the relationships aren’t healthy. Because of this fact, should I go for the kill? How should I go about this?
Here’s an idea why don’t you pursue women that are single. Stay away from attached people.
You’re assuming that’s human years.
I tend not to seek out opportunities to introduce my wife to some of the wackos that I know or work with.
Just sayin.
Is this how you’re going to get around your one-thread-per-week rule, by bumping year old threads? Fairly clever.