Sorry, you want the Hand Job study, on the next floor.
Were you never told, “Stop, or you’ll go blind!”?
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Oral sex is a prominent feature of human sexuality. Oral sex is practiced cross-culturally (e.g.,
Guadamuz et al., 2010; Iwawaki & Wilson, 1983; Kaestle & Halpern, 2007; Santtila et al., 2007), often
depicted in pornography (Rimm, 1994)
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So Rimm’s job was to watch porn & count the number of BJ scenes?
On a serious note, I’d like to say that in my True Love relationship (now over, there was only one) I experienced an organic desire to give my man mind-blowing fellatio as a direct expression of my love for him. Both in the sense of “Damn, I love him so much I just gotta get down with his body in this way to express and feel the intensity of my love!” as well as “Damn, I love him so much, how can I show him? I know! I’ll suck his cock!”
It’s the only time in my life that really had that direct love<->sex connection. I had loved others, and had wonderful sex with them, but being as they weren’t True Love, I guess, it didn’t feel so directly expressive of love. It was nice.
No, Rimm’s job was something else.
An old lover from college, way back then - she LOVED fellatio. At the time she told me she’d never done it for anyone before. The first time she did, it was urgent and eager. During the year or so we dated, it was a constant. Literally there were times I had to beg her to let me reciprocate, or please God could we just fuck?
We broke up during school, I hadn’t seen her for almost 25 years. We ran into each other literally just walking down Dearborn one afternoon. We’re both married and happy. We decided oh heck a drink is fine. Yes it was a drink ONLY.
She asked me if I remembered the last time she fellated me? I recalled it vividly and described the occasion and location. Her dad’s birthday party, we snuck out to their boat on the lake.
I knew you wondered. 
She said, THAT, that was the last time she had ever done that. Engaged twice, married for 15 years and no one but me had ever gotten that. I always wanted to believe that but in the back of my mind wondered. Thanks, I wonder a little less today.
I’ve mentioned this before on this board, but I once had a GF who had orgasms when I came in her mouth. (This was verifiable - she was one of those women who ejaculated when she climaxed.) So for her, giving me a blowjob was its own reward.
Unfortunately, she was also easily the most neurotic of my exes. You know what they say about not sticking your dick in the crazy? Well, it was worth it, at least for a little while. But only for a while.
Proof that real life imitates the movies. You know. . . THAT movie.
:: raises hand ::
two…
Make that three (you forgot/didn’t see “Martian Bigfoot”'s post, above).
The “bootstrapping technique” – humma humma.
I was married to my first wife 20 years, she was never too concerned with pleasing me and certainly felt secure. She was also very good about blow jobs I suspect because she enjoyed giving them.
Present girlfriend of almost 20 years, gives a lot more blow jobs when she is feeling insecure.
No pattern here beyond I like blowjobs.
Is there a significant flaw in the survey? They only surveyed university students, who are likely to be younger.
Ssh! That’s how the research needs to be done. Some older men should be used in the study sure, but there are numerous valid and necessary reasons that only young women should participate in the research.
Yeah, I did somehow scroll past that one, thanks.