It wasn’t too long ago that oral sex was considered perversion. I could see how someone raised in a strict, consevative household might have problems with it.
This should be a general rule for any type of sexual encounter.
This strikes me as outrageously funny for some reason.
I’ve never been with a man who wouldn’t do it either. However, being on the receiving end is really not my preference. It’s okay, but hands are better. (I love giving, though.)
These sorts of statements always interest me. I cannot imagine anyone being “raised” to have any opinion at all of oral sex. It’s not like it’s something that mothers teach their daughters along with sewing, cooking, and correct maxi-pad usage.
No, I can unequivocally say that “suck” and “dick” never were uttered by my mother in my direction at any time I was being raised. Neither for nor against, I might add.
Damnit. Apparently for all these years I have misunderstood the phrase “doing the nasty”.
That was the official line, but I think it’s always been pretty popular.
I don’t know. Now that we’re old and stuff, my mom *is *starting to talk about this sort of thing. She asked me in all seriousness the other day why men go to hookers these days, now that wives are willing to do oral sex. The woman honestly A) believes that men only went to hookers for blowjobs and B) that women of her generation didn’t do oral sex unless they were hookers. She’s 64, by the way. A Baby Boomer. I think I have some inkling now of why she hasn’t had a date since 1982… :eek:
This is why I love Top Gun. Maverick plays beach volleyball too long, goes to meet the hot woman, sees her lying all hot & bothered in the bed, and says…
“I gotta go take a shower.”
I never knew Dyanetics was published in waterproof version.
Believe me, the message gets through. If a girl is taught that sex is something to be endured in order to have children, and sex is only for the marriage bed, oral sex doesn’t have to be mentioned to be considered perverse.
I remember reading somewhere about a young girl who showed her mother a scene in a book involving oral sex. The girl asked if people did that in real life. The mother said, yes, people who love each other did that. The girl then told her grandmother what her mother had told her. After that, the grandmother would only serve meals to her daughter and the daughter’s husband with disposeable plastic untensils.
It was supposed to be a true story. I could see it happening, knowing some of the people I do.
Tip for the guys.
Tattoo a 100 dollar bill on your stinger. There isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t blow a hundred dollar bill when they get a chance.
I have to say, I’m amazed at the number of folks in this thread who married people who would not do oral sex. I thought most dated enough beforehand to find something like that out.
“The Jackal is blown. Repeat. The Jackal is blown.”
I’m reminded of that old joke:
Why is a bride so happy on her wedding day?
Because she knows she will never have to give another blowjob.
I have only ever refused oral sex if I felt like the guy was expecting it while being completely unwilling to return the favor. I will give happily and often, as long as I’m in a reciprocal situation. And it doesn’t have to be a 1:1 all the time, but if you think I’m going to make a habit of sucking you off and quietly leaving (or falling asleep), you’ve got another thing coming.
Little Sally walks in on her parents one night while they’re in flagrante delicto. She talks about it with her mother the next day, and mom says, “That’s where babies come from.”
Sally thinks for a second and says “How about last week, when Daddy was sitting on the sofa and you were on the floor?”
Mom said, “That’s where jewelry comes from.”
Temporomandibular joint disease. Not into pain, thanks.
Yeah you would think so. Then by about 5 years into the marriage I was hoping for it to happen at least once a year on my birthday.
In many cases, the oral sex ceases upon the consummation of marriage (which sounds weird…). At least that seems to be the case with a number of marriages. maybe it’s sex in general once the kids arrive.