Answer honestly. Theres no judgement in here for all the assholes and bitches on the SDMB.
Yes.
Mostly people think I am really sweet and nice and cute, but secretly I’m kind of a bitch. Also on Facebook I am often an asshole.
Yes. I don’t think I’m ever rude, but when I’m at work I expect to work**** and I’ve had at least two employees who had issues with that. In my mind they were the assholes, not me.
Now that a few people answered I’ll state that people think I’m an asshole and I am an asshole. As long as my wife can deal with me though I’m ok with that at this point in my life.
Same here.
Yes and yes.
This is hard to answer; I’m not often a bitch, but I can rise to the occasion. Does that make it a Yes for me?
People think I’m nice in general, and I am, but there are times I know I could have been a lot nicer than I was. I’m not so much a bitch as bitchy. And if people c ould hear what I’m really thinking…whoohooo! The fun days are when my mouth runs away on it’s own. That happens often enough that I can only imagine what’s gonna happen when I get full-blown Alzheimers! It’s gonna be great.
I honestly think that nearly all the people that I know think I am a great guy.
I find it hard to act like an asshole, not that it hasn’t happened, but they know it is a fleeting moment.
I didn’t vote, because there’s a big difference between an asshole and a bitch. I’m not an asshole, and I trust nobody thinks I am. But I am capable of being a bitch if the situation arises. And everyone knows that.
The only personality based criticism I ever get is that I’m too nice for my own good, so no for both.
Yep. Asshole. Guilty as charged.
I try to be otherwise, but I have to face facts.
I might be called a stuck-up bitch behind my back, but I’m just very socially phobic. It’s not that I think I’m too good to talk to strangers, it’s that I don’t think I’m good enough. D:
So maybe! I dunno for sure, but I wouldn’t be surprised.
I’m certainly capable of being bitchy online (usually after my intelligence has been insulted), but everyone is so that hardly counts.
I’m sure some of my students sometimes think I’m an asshole. My wife probably does now and then. I don’t think I’m an asshole overall, but we all have our moments.
Yes, but only because when I am not a bitch, my intentions can be misread. It’s easier to be seen as a bitch sometimes when you work around almost all men.
Not an asshole. It would make me very uncomfortable to try and be one. But you had no choice for “sarcastic bastard”.
I voted no/no. I am usually described by others as weird or mean or off-putting. People who describe me as mean are people who don’t ‘get’ sarcasm.
There are a fair few on this board who would unhesitatingly state that I am. IRL, not many people personally dislike me. I would say that I am an asshole, though, based on all the things I have to actively resist doing and saying.
Depends - I have been called a bitch a few times in the past, but not recently, at least not to my face. In the last 10 years I’ve had to be a lot more diplomatic and circumspect for work reasons in a field where it seemes everyone knows everyone, so except around very close friends I tend to keep everything professional and non-confrontational. I’ve even tried, and I hope succeeded in keeping my anonymous online interactions civil, and only say what I would say if I were in a roomful of people. Means I don’t post a great deal, and when I do my posts are mostly ignored, but I’ve always been good with being a fly on the wall.