You have been able to let hardygrrl take the brunt of our stern advice because she is protecting your identity. You, sir, are a weasel. If you are not willing to accept your share in this you do not deserve to continue to be part of our community. And your share is substantial; by taking advantage of TWO women who think they love you you have revealed yourself as the poltroon you are.
You are letting hardygrrl take this while you sit back and watch. You are no man. You are beneath contempt.
To be fair, he’s not the one who blabbed about the relationship all over the boards. Must we drag the whole humiliating thing into other threads? Maybe now these two can have their drama in private. I want a lobotomy.