You continue to prove to me you are a scumbag

You are becoming more of an asshole each day. I already made one rant about you. Since then you have had the electricity shut off and of course you contacted them to say that the person responsible for the bill is dead. This time you had to get his mother involved to contact the electric company but to your surprise she told them that she felt you were responsible for at least half the bill.

You then tried to convince them you never paid for any utilities which I know for a fucking fact is a lie. You mentioned many times about paying your half of the electric and gas bills. That was one reason I told you it was stupid to pay so much rent in the first place since it did not include utilities.

At least now his mother knows what you are all about and I hope she has contacted the gas company as well. I should have followed up and tried to locate her number but I didn’t and I am pissed at myself for not doing it.

So you borrowed money to get the electric back on. That is good for you since living without it is next to impossible.

But now you want to get rid of the cat you** insisted** on keeping.

I tried very hard and took my time to put up a Craigslist ad, Petfinder ad and several ads on other websites and even sent an email out at work trying to find homes for Sprouts two cats. I did it more for Sprout and the cats. I know Sprout loved his kitties and I could not bear thinking of them going to the pound.

A friend of his took one which was very nice of him but you were still left with Pugs. You insisted on wanting to keep her. You said she was your buddy and you did not want to re-home her. I tried to talk you out of it but you were adamant about keeping her since she was your “best friends” cat.

Not only did I go and take down all the ads but I told people that answered the ads and might have a place or might be able to at least foster her that you had made arrangements to keep her. I even hid her at my house for three days so Tom* would not know the cat was still around.

So you call me yesterday to inform me that Pugs has got to go and you want my help again. She is starting to shit upstairs. Apparently since Tom thought the cats were gone he removed a gate that kept them from going upstairs before. So now she is going up there and crapping on the carpet. I told you the simple solution was to ad a second litter box upstairs. Your answer was “I am not doing that because one is bad enough to clean out”. What the fuck? So cleaning out a second box is more of a hassle than cleaning cat shit off the carpet? But the even better solution of course is to just get rid of the cat.

I can’t believe at one time I was married to you or that we even remained friends for so long. You are a complete and total asshole that only thinks of yourself.

I am torn because although I want to help the poor cat I want nothing else to do with you ever again.

I am sure the gas will get shut off next and I hope you freeze to death next to a pile of cat shit.
*Tom was Sprouts step father and he owns the house. After Sprout died he noticed damage the cats had done and he insisted the two cats either be declawed or to get rid of them. These cats are eight and nine and declawing was just not an option and they are both indoor/outdoor, again not an option.

Tom lives out of state so he he does not know that he has kept one cat which was one reason I tried to talk him out of keeping Pugs. Not only will Tom kick him out, which at this point I could care less about, but he will also toss Pugs out on her ass.

Take the cat, re-issue the ads, and then cut the bastard out of your life forever.

It pisses me off when people are dragged through shit like this. The sort of irrationality you describe is one of my anxiety triggers. I hope things work out for you.

If he or she (Your ex? It’s hard to tell) is such a PITA, why not cut her out of your life for good? I guess it’s rough with the cat, so deal with that and never, ever communicate with him or her again. Thank whatever God you worship there are no kids.

He is my ex and after our divorce we remained friends. He had grown close to my daughter and they still have a good relationship. I did not see him that often, maybe four times a year.

His assholishness never affected my life after the divorce so it was easy to ignore. It actually came out more as ignorance than assholish, if that makes sense, but these recent events are not ignorance. They are flat out lies and deception at the cost of his so called best friend that has passed away.

He is flat out trying to cheat the system by letting utility bills build up until they are shut off knowing they can not collect from a dead guy. The issue with the cat is just the straw that broke the camels back when it comes to how I feel about the idiot.

I am going to try to do what I can for the cat and then cut him out of my life for good.