you Fucking Bitch! How dare you do that to your own son!!!!!

The BBQ Pit
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Oh Shit, you useless fucking excuse for a human being! You made me choose my job over defending a child today and I hope you rot in hell for that.

I was at work and was in a pretty crappy mood for lots of reasons I won’t go into here.

A “woman” and I hesitate to use the term, comes into out showroom and starts to look around. ( We are a really high end kitchen design firm with lots of big kitchen displays and nice smooth marble and stone floors- perfect for zipping around on if that is all you can do))

She has her ~10 year old son who is in a motorized wheelchair with her and he zips off to look around. I did not get a good look at him but his disapbility was not mental, I heard him talking quite lucidly and clearly. He was not causing any trouble and was not being a nuisance to anyone at all.

The mom is engrossed in conversation with my boss (and me peripherally as I am there answering a few technical questions)and is totally ignoring him. For some reason however, she decides he needs to stay by her so she calls him over to sit next to them while they are discussing colours and patterns and other boring as shit stuff ( to a 10 year old boy for sure)

He moves off to look out the window, then starts heading off to look around some more.
Again, I repeat for your benefit, he was not shouting or knocking things over or any of the crap that most little North Shore Brats do when they come in)

The mom calls him over and starts yelling at him in a very mean tone of voice. She was not being particularly loud but she didn’t have to.

Here is the conversation to the best of my recollection:
(I was in shock so I may have missed the exact quote, if anyhing it was more abhorrent than this)

It’s all “Mom” talking as the boy was being quiet as a mouse:

Immediately followed by her saying in a mocking tone that was easily heard throughout the office

He was mortified, he just sat there, tears welling in his eyes not moving a muscle or saying a word. My boss was standing right there, pretending he didn’t hear a thing.

Oh man, you sack of shit! How DARE YOU fucking demean and insult your child like that! I swear if I see you out of the office, I am going to rip you a new asshole. Now I am in iffy straights at my job and I can’t afford to lose it so I had to make the decision : Let this cuntbucket make fun of her child in front of perfect strangers and not say a thing or swallow my anger and act like nothing happened.
FUCK you Boss for making me do that!

I did the wrong thing. I walked away.
I should have walked up to that woman and told her that she should get down on her knees and beg his forgiveness for belittling him in such a way. She should be wishing to God that his affliction be on her instead and that she would die to be able to let him “run around” the store like other kids do…

Instead she makes fun and points out to him oh so painfully that he will never get to move around and run like “normal” kids. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck.
And I just sit there, seething and weeping inside for that kid.
Damn it this has ruined my whole day. I feel so bad for that poor kid, I can only imagine what evil things she says to him when she doesn’t have to worry about stranger’s opinions.

Bitch. I wish I had Jarbaby’s talents, I could have used them on you today you fucking piece of shit.

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I’m speechless. Mike, you have the self control of a saint. Hopefully you’ll run into the Goethe-street wannabe somewhere else so you can so rightfully rip her a new one.

What a steel-plated bitchcunt. Her son is alive and all she can think to do is belittle him to his face. I don’t usually think of people this way, but that woman is definitely a waste of precious air.

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Jesus Haploid Christ! WTF is wrong with that bitch? Mocking a crippled kid is bad enough, but to her own SON!

I hope she gets whacked in the cervical vertebrae and her spinal cord is shattered so she can enjoy life in a wheelchair.

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MikeG, you refer to;

Originally posted by MikeG

“…little North Shore Brats…”

Are you from Long Island? 'Cause if you are, just let me know where you work and give me a call if that woman ever again comes into your place of employment. Just remember to be waiting outside to take anything that could be used as a weapon off of me before I initiate a discussion with her. Otherwise, things might get a little…Well, you know. :slight_smile:

In all seriousness, what a fucking A cuntrag. I don’t care how much resentment she has because she has to raise a kid with major problems. That’s what talking out problems is for. Cuntrag.

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North Shore of Chicago, just as bad…Think Ferris Bueller’s Day Of and the Home Alone series.

Well I called my kids and talked to them and told them I love them so I feel a little better now but it still astounds me.

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I know its a little woosy, but try to make some seripticious signal to the boy to let him know you’re on his side. A wink, pat him on the shoulder as you walk away, smile, stick tounge out at his erstwhile mother when her head is turned. Anything, so he knows you sympathize.

It ain’t much but it’s a sure lot better than nothing.

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I don’t get it. Was the mother saying the kid couldn’t zip around, which he apparently WAS doing? Or was she saying the kid couldn’t obey her order to stay still, which was apparently true?
I wasn’t there, but it seems to me you could have misconstrued her words. Or was there something else that happened that you didn’t post?

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No her tone of voice and her body language said it all.

She was telling him that her use of the word Move was erroneous because as he was in a wheelchair, he couldn’t just move around. She was deliberately using his disability to demean him and point out the same to others in proximity to him.

She used her son as a punchline and he knew it.

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She was saying he can’t run around, which is both obvious and cruel to a wheelchair-bound kid.

Fuck her. And I don’t mean sexually. Bitch.

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Oh. My. God.

Some people just do not deserve their children.

I agree with tigg. You’re self control is superior to mine. I would have been on the phone reporting psychological and emptional abuse to Child Welfare.

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Do you know for a fact that she was “mom”? (Not that it makes it better)

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You know, Mike, when I read that post, I thought “This sounds like the shore.” I was raised on the North Shore. That’s where I had my bouncing shitballs experience. Blecch.

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Yeah, I’m still stuck in the Norsh Shore. This place sucks, and it’s probobly the leading cause to your problem.

~Lesath

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Hmm. I still hope you may have misunderstood her** Mike G.** My first reaction was that her statement regarding what he can’t do referred to his inability to remain still, which is quite normal for a ten year old. After all, he certainly demonstrated that he could move. If she referred to his inability to walk, there would be a big difference if his condition was permanent or just a broken leg from a playing accident.

I have a ten year old girl, and unlike her older sister, we have a very tongue in cheek, sarcastic, and verbally abusive relationship that we both enjoy (no profanity though). If she was in a wheel chair as a result of a soccer accident, and I was faced with dealing with her rambunctiousness, I might very well say the same thing.

I know that there are abusive parents out there, but they are usually far more discrete. If you are correct, and you read the boy’s reaction correctly then we have a seriously disturbed woman here, and the incident should be reported.

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No-one has ANY right to say that kind of insulting, demeaning putdown to ANYONE in a wheelchair, much less her own son. If he has to put up with that kind of shit from his mother on a regular basis, he’s going to have some serious emotional problems when he gets older. My condolences to him.

I firmly believe in Karma. This woman will get what she gives tenfold. What a dicksneeze.

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Did anyone elses stomache actually turn like mine did?
That is just sick and wrong.
When my oldest heathen was in a body cast therefore in a wheel chair the standard joke was when we went somewhere and put his chair for a stop to tell him to wait right there and don’t go anywhere. (he was hit by a car)
The way he was postioned in the chair he couldn’t reach the wheels and he had to be pushed everywhere. If you walked away from the chair, there he sat.

Now, do not take that story as a you don’t know what she was going through statement because it wasn’t. You were there and you saw the body language from mom and boy we weren’t.
That woman needs to be drawn and quartered! Her personal barb at the child was sick and cruel in public as well as at home.
It kind of makes you wonder if she pulls this shit in front of others, what in the hell is she treating him like at home out of the eyes of the public?

I’ve yet to make it to a Chicago dopefest, but I’m only a few hours away if you ever find this woman I bet I can round up a group of friends and come right up.
There are no excuses for this woman.

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I think if his mom was just talking about his inability to sit still in his wheelchair, or if it was just a temporary injury, the kid might have reacted differently. MikeG saw the kid at the brink of tears. That seems as though his mom’s comment hit pretty hard, hinting at the fact that her tone was as MikeG heard it and that his condition was in fact permanent.

I, like obfusciatrist, am hoping that the woman was not the boy’s mother, but merely a cruelly stupid aunt, or maybe a babysitter. That wouldn’t make the comment acceptable, just perhaps less stomach-churning. This woman definitely needs some severe reprogramming.

Personally, I think she’d benefit by being forcibly confined to a wheelchair and being subjected to the kind of cruel verbal foulness to which she subjected that boy.

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Montfort

Fuck her. With a ungreased bat and I do mean sexually. :mad:

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“The Splendid Splinter” spring to mind for some appropriate reason . . .

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Instead of dreaming of ripping this woman, who may not even be the boy’s mother, a new shit-hole and raping her with a greasy bat and whatever else as been so eloquently described here, why don’t you go to a goddarned phone and report this incident to the proper authorities who can then look into it? Jesus!