The world is okay, it’s marginal, not like it was 6 years ago where you were on top of the world. You were making shit loads of money, you lived in a small city that brought out the best in you. You woke up most everyday and it was happiness.
Not that your life is shitty just not what you want. You never wanted this loneliness, but somehow it’s okay. You still yearn for the times when you could make the sadest person in the world smile…with a gift of love and caring. You could look at yourself in the mirror or now, in a picture of then and think, wow, I was truly happy.
So you sit and wonder, why can’t I be happy with what I have now? Why isn’t this enough? Why does the past seem better than now?
Could it be that you were stupid and unknowing? Could it be that you were truly happier then? It baffles me.
I am happier than I have been in probably four years but somehow I still feel I am missing something major in my life. I have undergone a lot of changes in the time since. It’s not the fact that I am 32 going on 33, it’s something that I had back then I don’t have now and I can’t pin it down.
It’s not the money, it’s not the cute body I had, it’s something more organic than that. I remember this feeling well, I can recreate it in my world of the past but can’t with my current self… It’s very strange. I was free as a fly or a bird or a world that doesn’t exist but it’s there.
Maybe I have the moving bug again. The one that takes me far away from Colorado Springs, the place of my birth and sometimes the death of my character. I was more free when I lived in Grand Junction. I didn’t have a lot of the pressures of living close to family.
I knew I should have purchased that house, I knew it, but I didn’t. I did everything I could (not intentionally) to fuck up my credit.
Anyhow, I crave that confidence, that strength, the balls I had back then and I want it back rather than being a meek mouse that only listens those closest to me to stifle me. I want that 25 year old spirit back. I want me back. I am tired of living like this…I would say more other than I have become a world class (yeah) slob.
Not sure how to find that old Liz again, she’s there somewhere, but where? Damn, she got buried under all the garbage of depression and she’s doing okay, really she is, but fuck, she wants to be that driving and crafty person again…
So that’s Ms. techchick’s life at the moment, torn betweeen happiness and sadness. Rips you apart with each thought because she knows she could always have it much worse, but knowing that it was so much better (for a brief time) before.
< sigh >