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How was it a ‘block of text’? Do you consider books to be blocks of text? Have you read a book? I’m sure you have, right? Considering that I have pressed enter and gone down a line at times to create something known as ‘paragraphs’ along the way, I’m sure you could have seen that. [/QUOTE
You either go down two lines or indent to make paragraphs, dumbass.
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How was it a ‘block of text’? Do you consider books to be blocks of text? Have you read a book? I’m sure you have, right? Considering that I have pressed enter and gone down a line at times to create something known as ‘paragraphs’ along the way, I’m sure you could have seen that.
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You either go down two lines or indent to make paragraphs, dumbass.[/QUOTE]
Oh no, I didn’t make the beginning of the next line go to the right a few spaces! Shoot me now!
Go fuck yourself silly.
Why does she “owe” him anything? How much did that Second Life gift cost?
Also, you sure seem to use some ugly language for a girl having sex with her boyfriend and your boyfriend “Z” seems rather effeminate … are you two a gay couple? Just curious.
Man. These people all just seem so perfect for each other, don’t they?
I wonder if they have some kind of nutty fucker radar that helps them find each other. Like they’ll just be standing there in a crowd, then suddenly their eyes get all wide, their noses rise up into the air, and in a frightening sort of voice they exclaim “I smell crrrrrrazy!”
I’m not sure, but he sure seems hooked on Mauna Loa Nuts… 
Yeah, we’re a gay couple. Sorry I didn’t make it more clear. Actually, “Z” isn’t very effeminate, just sorta prone to emotional…things. I’m actually more effeminate than he is. I love the shoppin’ and browsin’ the malls, he doesn’t.
And I meant ‘owe’ by the fact that he’s been there for her a lot emotionally, and the least she could do is spend some good time with him in a visit. He actually made the gift for her personally.
Nay, she’s given him something much more valuable than a visit or a forced reciprocated gift.
She’s personally shown him that there are drama queens who must be the center of the universe, sucking all the energy out of rooms, and who lie to make their experiences seem that much more dramatic, miserable or unjust. They are needy pathetic creatures who survive by feeding off the good nature of naïve, kind souls. Clinically narcissistic, they lack the slightest boundaries.
We’ve all met them. Some of us have even tried to help them. Most of us realize all you can do is to run like hell when they show up.
Getting pissy at other posters who are pointing this out won’t help your cause.
Your boyfriend has given a lot to this woman (emphasis on the “given” - no one made him do anything), and if the exchange is too one-sided, he needs to quit giving. Simple as pie. And the least she could do is nothing at all. Which seems to be what she’s ponying up. She doesn’t owe him anything at all (although a good person would reciprocate). What’s that saying - when someone shows you who they are, it’s your responsibility to see it.
Oh, actually, I’m not pissy at pointing out that she’s a drama queen. In fact I saw this before too, and I’m pointing this out even moreso to the BF more than ever, now.
Besides, he and I have better things approaching than to worry about her and her drama.
And featherlou, I agree. We had a talk about this earlier today too. It’s hard for him to swallow, but surprisingly, it seems he’s swallowing it.
As far as I’m concerned, the whole matter with her is resolved in my mind, and if it comes up again with him it’ll be quenched quite quickly.
God. Before I read back a bit, I thought you were replying to
Anyway, fucked up situation brought on by what sounds like a shitload of emotional immaturity. Best of luck with it.
You have got to be kidding.
Have you looked at your OP? I think you forgot to hit enter a couple times.
And using one letter to represent a person is fucking annoying. At least you took the time to come up with an interesting name for the drama queen. She must rank higher in your thought processes than “Z”.
I will drink to that.
Ok, so I went and read the rest of the thread. It makes no sense if they’re all gay. Unless all that fucking and references to genitalia is strictly metaphorical, at least 2 of the 3 of you are bi. And have the emotional maturity of Doogie Howser.
I’m disgusted AND confused. Blah–moving on. Best of luck and all that…
God damn that’s funny.
Thanks, I needed that laugh. 
Only two are gay. Maui Lion and his boyfriend are gay, and the drama queen and her boyfriend are straight.
I don’t like the idea that a gift means someone is entitled to something. Yes, it would be nice if people were nice to you after they gave you something, but the idea that a gift means you have to return the favor in some way is a little creepy to me. It should be freely given.
Well put, and exactly so.
It seems to me that there is one of two things going on here.
One, the drama queen is an emotional vampire who creates drama so that she can take from others. If that is the case, then she richly deserves this pitting.
Two, “Z” seeks out the drama in people’s lives in order to rescue them from harm, and does, indeed, want their love or approval in exchange for it.
And of course, both may be in play. Either way, though, “Z” has a lot of growing up to do. He’s trying to live his life outside of himself, and trying to get happiness from others when he should be providing his own. That inadvertantly makes him an emotional vampire himself. The only person that owes him anything is him, and what he owes himself most is the chance to develop emotional maturity and self-sufficiency.
Maui Lion, good luck with that.
Any time I hear this kind of super-dramatic story from someone online, my BS detector goes off (a pregnancy with one baby is not quite dramatic enough, so let’s make it twins! Oh wait, gotta make sure there’s no need to explain where the baby is, so gotta have a miscarriage…yada yada). I suspect “she” probably is someone who enjoys making up wild too-good-to-be-true stories online just because “she” can. It wouldn’t surprise me at all if she’s putting off visiting him because “she” has been lying to him about who “she” really is (and may not even really be in Canada).
Sorry to hear that your boyfriend got attached to her and is feeling bad over her behavior. She’s not worth the anguish, when she may not even be who he thinks she is anyway.
yawns
Oh sweetheart, are you still hung up on manini shit and so unable to come up with anything better that you’re still hung up on the initial?
I don’t care if it’s fucking annoying for you, I’m not here to please you, I don’t give a shit whether you like my typing/posting style or not for the post. I’m not going to put a whole extra line between paragraphs every time and lengthen the post because the air between your ears can’t stand it.
Bless your heart.
Yeah, fuck having your posts be readable in the same way as 99.9% of everything written on this message board.
Fight the power!
Another reason why Drama Queen might avoid your boyfriend, Maui Lion, is that people in general avoid the people who have seen them at their worst. This is dreadfully unfair to friends and strangers who have done the major part of “being there” for someone in a crisis, but there it is. People transfer to the listener the shame they feel afterwards of their behavior, and the association of the pain that is now in the past. That is one of the reasons why, if you want to become friends with someone, your first and most important role should never be confidant(e). That’s a sure fire way of being avoided afterwards. It’s different, of course, if you were friends before and had had some give and take balance of “being there” for each other.