Here’s the situation: I have this acquaintance who is part of the same social circle I’m in. She’s 29, and I’d characterize her as a flaming hippy. This summer, she had 5 kids all under the age of 8 by 3 different men. She has no job, she’s on welfare, and she loves to party. As a result, she foists her kids off on other people as often as possible, asking anyone and everyone, including near strangers who I wouldn’t trust with my gerbils, to babysit for her brood. She’s what my dad would call a shnorer: she will borrow money, ask for food, call you up to drive her and her kids somewhere, even if it’s nowhere near where you live or need to go.
In fact, this summer she was OFFERING her kids to other people. I am fond of her children, and whenever I see them I wash their hands and faces (which always desperately need it), buy them snacks, and play with them. All of them are very needy for attention, and I strongly suspect some of them have emotional problems. I am particularly attached to her 5 year old, Shine Ray (if you doubted she was a hippy, all skepticism should now be allayed). At 5, he rarely talks, but loves to curl up in my lap and be held for hours. Anyway, my pal, his mom, asked me if I wanted to KEEP Shine. KEEP him, as it adopt him and take him off her hands. She also tried to give away her one year old to a friend of mine who got close to the baby. I would have loved to take Shine, but I am not ready to raise a kid, esp. not someone else’s.
This summer I knew she was sleeping around with a bunch of guys, including the father of her last 2 kids. I sat her down and asked her what she was doing about birth control. She told me she “had it covered.” Yeah, she was praying to the Earth Mother or something because… this bitch is pregnant AGAIN. :smack: Yes indeedy. This is where your tax dollars are going, to allow this deadbeat baby machine to repopulate the planet with her neglected, sad, dirty little babies.
The funny thing is, this chick is all about saving and loving Mother Earth from the inevitable destruction we as humans are wreaking. One night, I lost my temper and asked her what was the biggest problem facing Mother Earth today. She said, and I quote, “People are not telling the truth to each other or the Earth.” I responded, “What the hell does that mean? No, sister, the main problem facing Mother Earth is that there are too many bloody humans, paving paradise and putting up parking lots.” She told me that her “enlightened” methods of child rearing entitled and REQUIRED her to have as many children as she could. Never mind that she cannot support them, doesn’t take care of them, and wants to give them away like unwanted puppies.
I am so furious at her for having another baby after her attempts to get rid of the ones she has this summer. What the fuck is wrong with her? I haven’t been taking her phone calls because I know I can’t say anything nice to her. I feel sorry for her kids but I have no sympathy for her. :mad:
I don’t even know why I’m posting this, except I feel sort of bitchy about being so angry about this, and where else I can I bitch this freely but The Pit? I wish I could just take Shine and run, but she’ll just keep having more and more and more-- she’s only 29, so just imagine how many more she can pump out before menopause? She’s the poster girl for forced sterilization of the insane. Grrrrr…